Core Transformations & Relationship Coaching
Stop waiting for the world to change. I help you rewire your attachment patterns and build real self-worth through radical responsibility, not quick fixes.
This is what breaking through your self-imposed limits feels like. The moment you realize you can withstand the cold, you understand you can handle anything life throws at you. This is a core part of my LBD Retreats, where we face our fears to build real, unshakable confidence.
The people you attract are mirrors. If you keep finding yourself in the same frustrating relationship dynamics, the first place to look is within. This is the core of my philosophy: taking radical responsibility to change your own part of the dance, which is the only way to change the entire relationship.
"It's my home." "It's magic." "It's self-reflection." These are not my words, but the words of people who have come to my LBD Retreats as strangers and left as family. Hear directly from them what it feels like to be in a space where you are safe, seen, and celebrated.
Ever wonder why you're drawn to partners who pull away, or why you get clingy? It's not a personality flaw, it's your attachment style, a blueprint formed in childhood. Understanding whether you are anxious, avoidant, or secure is the first step to breaking the cycle and building a healthy relationship.
The patterns that sabotage your adult relationships often start as wounds in your childhood. This is a look at the five common inner child wounds, from the fear of abandonment to the feeling of not being good enough. Recognizing your wound is the first step to healing it.
This is where the work happens. In my workshops, I use tools like whiteboarding to break down complex emotional concepts into simple, actionable steps. It’s not just about talking; it’s about learning and applying practical frameworks for real-life change.
I used to be the person who suffocated partners with neediness because of my anxious attachment. I share my story openly because I want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle, and that it is possible to heal and build a secure, loving relationship with yourself and others.
If you find yourself getting skeptical or scared when someone shows you genuine love, it's often because your own love for yourself is conditional. At my retreats, we work on peeling back these layers so you can finally allow yourself to receive the love you deserve.
About Featured
My work isn't about giving you a checklist on how to fix a partner. It is about looking at why you are choosing the same patterns over and over. Whether you join a 5-day retreat in Wayanad or a 5-hour workshop in a metro studio, we are doing the heavy lifting together. We use somatic exercises like ice baths, whiteboarding for emotional regulation, and deep dives into attachment styles to unmask your triggers. It gets uncomfortable, but that is where the growth actually happens.
Moving From Anxious to Secure
Relationships are mirrors. If you keep finding yourself in the same frustrating dynamic, the problem rarely starts with the other person. My approach is rooted in radical responsibility. We look at your earliest experiences—your inner child wounds—to understand why you might lean towards anxious or avoidant attachment.
The Work We Do
- Transformation Tour Workshops: These are high-energy, 5-hour sessions in cities like Delhi, Mumbai, and Bangalore. We move beyond theory, using whiteboard sessions to give you concrete tools for emotional regulation that you can apply the moment you walk out the door.
- LBD Retreats: When you need to unplug completely, we head to places like Jim Corbett or Wayanad. This is not a vacation; it is a 5-day intensive. We use ice baths to build resilience, group circles to hold space, and somatic release work to get you out of your head and into your body.
Why Application-Only?
I am picky about who joins my cohorts. Whether it is a virtual masterclass or a residential retreat, these spaces are built on vulnerability. I keep the intake application-only to ensure everyone is ready to do the shadow work. If you are looking for a quick fix or someone to blame for your relationship struggles, this is not the place for you. But if you are ready to stop pretending and start building a real foundation, I am here to hold that space.
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