My Approach to Timeless Soft Glam Makeup
My process is simple: we chat, we plan, and we create a look that feels exactly like you—just on your best day.
I often hear from brides that their biggest fear is looking too made up on their wedding day. My entire approach is built around avoiding that. I use buildable base products instead of heavy coverage, match every color to your undertone, and use soft individual lashes for a natural flutter. My goal is to make you look like yourself, just beautifully dressed for your most special day.
Brides, let's get specific. Simply saying "I want soft glam" can mean many things. To create your perfect look, I encourage you to share inspiration pictures and tell me what you like about them. The more we discuss your style, outfit, and comfort level, the better I can bring your vision to life.
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About My Philosophy & Process
Before we touch a single brush, we look at your inspiration pictures together. If you dislike heavy falsies or thick contouring, we simply skip them. I use buildable base products instead of full-coverage foundations to ensure your skin texture remains visible, not masked. My goal is to create a look that feels comfortable from your morning ritual until the last dance of the night.
Defining Your Version of 'Soft Glam'
'Soft glam' can mean ten different things to ten different people. To ensure we are on the same page, I ask every client to be specific. Do you love a dewier finish, or do you prefer a soft matte? Is there a specific lipstick shade that makes you feel confident? Sharing what you dislike is just as important—if you aren't comfortable with winged liner or heavy contouring, tell me, and we will find a different path.
My Signature Techniques
- Skin-First Preparation: I focus on hydration and priming to ensure your base sits beautifully. I prefer applying foundation with a damp sponge or fingers, which melts the product into your skin rather than letting it sit on top.
- Undertone Matching: From your base to your blush and lips, I select shades that harmonize with your natural undertones. This prevents that 'caked-on' feeling and ensures your makeup enhances, rather than masks, your features.
- Thoughtful Definition: Instead of harsh, black lines, I often use smudged brown liners for a softer, more defined look. For lashes, I prefer using individual clusters rather than heavy strips, giving you a natural flutter that doesn't weigh down your eyelids.
Why This Matters
My priority is that you still recognize yourself when you look in the mirror. Whether you are the bride, the mother of the bride, or a guest, your makeup should be photo-ready but feel breathable. We will discuss your outfit, your jewelry, and the event vibe to build a look that is truly yours.
Maitreyi Kotia
I’m Maitreyi. I believe your wedding makeup shouldn't hide your face—it should just make you feel like the best version of yourself. I’ve spent years refining this 'soft glam' style to make sure you feel comfortable, radiant, and completely real, whether you're in Delhi or Dubai.
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