Pre-Marital Counseling Guidebook for Families
Finding a life partner today is often stressful. My guidebook offers a practical, grounded approach for families in Maharashtra and Karnataka to navigate the process with clarity.
This short video introduces my exclusive guide to matchmaking, a book I wrote to simplify the often stressful process of finding a life partner. It is available in both Marathi and Kannada to help more families on their matrimonial journey.
I was delighted to launch the Kannada version of my book, 'Kanasininda Hasemanege', with the help of the wonderful translator, Smt. Ranjana Naik. In this video, we discuss why this pre-marriage counseling guide is so essential for prospective couples and their parents today.
In this article for Maharashtra Times, I explore the chaos and confusion, or 'Lagnakallol', that many experience during the matrimonial process. My work aims to bring clarity and calm to this important life stage, focusing on emotional compatibility over superficial criteria.
To make my guidance more accessible, I am happy to share that both the Marathi and Kannada editions of my book are now available for readers at the City & State Central Library in Belagavi, Karnataka. This reflects my commitment to reaching every family that needs support.
Fear of commitment is a common concern I see among young people. Here, I discuss this topic with Kannada writer and social activist Mrs. Ranjana Naik, exploring how understanding and communication are more important than forced commitments in a modern Indian marriage.
Celebrating 10 years of Saptapadi Vivah fills me with gratitude. This journey, built on over 3000 success stories, has provided the real-world experience and insights that I have poured into my pre-marital guidance book.
About Featured
This is not a theoretical manual. I wrote this book after ten years of counseling families, distilling real scenarios into actionable advice. It is designed to help you and your parents move past superficial checklists and have honest conversations about what truly builds a sustainable partnership.
Navigating the Indian marriage landscape is often overwhelming. Whether you are a parent feeling pressure to find a perfect match or an individual struggling with commitment fears, the process can feel like a high-stakes transaction. My goal with this book is to shift that perspective.
What you will find in the guide
- Real-world scenarios: Instead of abstract theories, I share insights from over 100 actual matchmaking cases to help you see patterns and potential pitfalls clearly.
- Compatibility over criteria: We dive deep into why emotional readiness matters more than superficial factors like income or height, offering practical steps to identify what makes a partner truly compatible.
- Family guidance: There is a dedicated section for parents, helping them support their children without imposing unrealistic expectations.
Languages and Availability
The book is available in two editions: Swapnapasun Lagnaparyant (Marathi) and Kanasininda Hasemanege (Kannada). Both are written as perfect-bound paperbacks, making them easy to read and refer to throughout your search.
I believe marriage is a sacrament and a journey of emotions, not a package deal. This book provides the tools to approach it with a clear mind and an open heart. You can order your copy directly from me or find it at the City and State Central Library in Belagavi.
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