Matrimonial Guidance Book

Why I Wrote This Book

After years of listening to hundreds of families, I saw how tough finding the right match really is. Lagn tharan he watta titka sopa rahilela nahi (fixing a marriage isn’t easy anymore). There's so much stress, family pressure, and honestly, expectations just go through the roof. I wanted to make things a bit simpler and more real for everyone.

What You’ll Find in My Book

• Not just another checklist – I get into what really matters, like emotional compatibility advice and looking past just income or height.
• More than 100 real-life matchmaking stories from my counseling experience so things feel relatable, not textbook.
• Steps you can actually use, not just theory, for all those common problems in the shaadi process.
• My main thought: Vivah ha ek sanskar ahe, package deal nahi (marriage is a sacrament, not a package deal). I talk about finding a meaningful bond, not just ticking boxes.

For Families Too

I see that parents and elders have a huge influence, so there’s a section just for them. It helps families support their kids without unrealistic expectations.

Now in Kannada Too

For Kannada families, the book is available as "Kanasininda Hasemanege". The goal is to reach more people who need genuine, practical Indian marriage preparation guide, in their own language.