Intentional Dating in Bengaluru: Move Beyond App Fatigue
Dating isn't a film script—it’s about finding someone who actually shares your vibe. Whether you're burnt out by apps or looking for a serious connection in Bengaluru, here is how we can rewrite your dating story together.
Finding a partner isn't a CAT exam you have to crack, and you don't need to wait for violins to play. In this podcast, I break down the myths we've been fed by rom-coms and explain how dating is really a journey of self-discovery. Everything is figureoutable, and I'm here to help you navigate it.
I was invited as a guest lecturer at IIM Bangalore to speak on the business and psychology of dating markets. This is me, right before walking into a classroom of curious minds from around the world to discuss everything from dating apps to building trust and finding authentic connections.
See my live matchmaking in action. In this session, I introduce three eligible, single men I'm working with in Bengaluru. This is a real, no-nonsense approach to helping serious singles meet, moving beyond the screen to create genuine offline connections.
Are you a feminist looking for a partner who shares your values? My 'Dealbreaker Dates' service is designed for you. I help you connect with like-minded individuals, saving the time and emotional energy of filtering through incompatible matches.
The media often calls on me to decode new dating trends. Here, I'm featured in The New Indian Express, breaking down the Gen Z trend of 'Throning'. Understanding these trends is key to navigating the modern dating world with confidence.
"If only I could find good people on the apps." I hear this all the time. The truth is, your vibe attracts your tribe. In this short clip, I share a crucial tip on how to make your dating profile work for you, so you start attracting the right kind of people.
The proof is in the results. This is what clients say about working with me. My goal is to not just find you dates, but to help you build confidence, get clarity on what you want, and feel motivated to put yourself out there and build connections.
About this collection
Most people come to me because they’re exhausted by the 'app cycle'—endless swiping, vague conversations, and zero real connection. I don’t believe in fixing you or changing your personality to match a checklist. Instead, I help you get clear on your dealbreakers and attachment style so you can stop wasting time on the wrong matches and start building something that actually sticks.
Rethinking Modern Dating
We’ve been fed a lie that dating should be all butterflies and violins. The truth? It’s often awkward, confusing, and tiring. If you are in your 30s or 40s in Bengaluru, you know the frustration of the current dating market—where superficial profiles dominate and genuine intent is hard to find. My approach is different. We strip away the rom-com expectations and focus on what matters: values, lifestyle, and finding a partner who actually gets your 'why.'
My Approach to Connections
Whether you are looking for 1-on-1 coaching to audit your current dating patterns or want to explore offline matchmaking, I work with people who are done with 'casual' and ready for the real thing. I don't use a standard database approach. I use a human-centric methodology that I've shared on stages at IIMs and in workshops across the city.
- Conscious Dating: We look at your dealbreakers—whether you are feminist, childfree, or looking for someone sober curious—and build a filter that works for your life, not against it.
- Offline Community: From my Poha-Jalebi Club to curated singles events, I believe the best connections happen when people show up as themselves, not as a curated bio.
- Profile Audit: If you must use apps, let's make sure they communicate who you actually are. We will fix your bio and photos so they attract the right tribe, not just the random crowd.
Ready to Start?
Stop waiting for the 'meet-cute' that only happens in movies. Dating is a skill, and it's one you can learn. If you're tired of the confusion and want an actionable plan to reach your last first date, let's talk.
Radhika Mohta
I'm Radhika, and I believe dating should feel less like a high-pressure exam and more like discovering your tribe. I cut through the noise—whether that’s app burnout or outdated expectations—to help you find real, sustainable connections in a city that’s constantly on the move.
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