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title: "Couples & Marriage Coaching to Build a Stronger Bond - mytribe"
description: "Feeling disconnected? Our expert Couples & Marriage Coaching helps you improve communication and learn conflict resolution. Build a deeper, more fulfilling partnership with actionable relationship coaching. Book a session on Tribe and reconnect with your partner."
canonical: https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching
last_updated: 2025-09-15
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# Couples & Marriage Coaching

By [Ayushi Mathur Dua](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur) · I help couples work through real issues like conflict, communication, and marriage readiness with practical tools and honest conversations, not just advice.

## Locations

Online sessions

Also available online.

## Pricing guide (estimates)

These are indicative prices based on provider's past work. Enquire now to find out final quote.

### 75 Minute Strategy Consultation

One time video session to identify conflict patterns and provide immediate de-escalation tools.

Typically ₹2,800-3,200 per session (estimate)

#### Session Format
* 75 minute video call via Zoom or Google Meet
* 1:2 Consultation (Coach with Couple)
* Bilingual delivery (English and Hindi)

#### Focus Areas
* Identification of specific conflict loops
* Triage for current urgent disagreements
* Immediate action plan creation

#### Key Features
* Neutral third party mediation without taking sides
* Balanced validation for both partners

### 3 Month Revitalizer Program

8 session structured curriculum with weekday chat support to reset communication habits.

Typically ₹12-13K per program (estimate)

#### Live Coaching
* 8 Video coaching sessions (60 minutes each)
* Weekly or bi-weekly scheduling options
* Curriculum covers Conflict Resolution, Intimacy, and Finances

#### Resource Access
* Mon to Fri Email and DM support for immediate queries
* Access to proprietary PDFs, Worksheets, and Checklists
* Includes "Embrace & Attract" E-book

#### Accountability
* Weekly progress tracking
* Homework assignments and review

### 6 Month Comprehensive Reboot

12 sessions over half a year including emergency crisis access and unlimited text support.

Typically ₹17-19K per program (estimate)

#### Coaching Schedule
* 12 Video coaching sessions spread over 6 months
* Fortnightly frequency to allow implementation time
* 1 x 30 minute "Crisis Call" for emergencies

#### Extended Support
* Unlimited Email and DM guidance
* Life Vision and Accountability Partnership planning
* Full access to digital tool and assessment library

#### Program Bonuses
* 1 Transferable 60 minute coaching session voucher
* Access to session recordings upon request

## About Couples & Marriage Coaching

### Relationships Aren't Just About Love

I've learned firsthand that love alone doesn't make a relationship work. What matters is how you handle the tough stuff together - how you fight, talk, and heal. I used to struggle a lot with anxious attachment and low confidence, so I get how messy relationships can feel. I won't hand out magic fixes, but I will help you find your own answers. My job is to ask the questions you might be avoiding and hold space for both of you to choose each other, for real.

### What We Actually Work On

I focus on practical stuff, not just talk. With me, you'll:

- Figure out marriage readiness - making sure your big life goals line up before you get stuck fighting over them later
- Learn conflict resolution for couples, so arguments become building blocks instead of wrecking balls
- Get real about communication, money, family boundaries, intimacy, and your shared vision
- Try tools to deepen friendship and bring back playfulness (kyunki masti bhi zaruri hai - because fun matters too)

### Why Honest Conversations Matter

Before saying "I do," we dig into the awkward topics - money, family, life goals, and the past. Confidence kya hai? It's facing those tough talks even when you feel scared, because your bond is worth it.

### Fighting Fair, Connecting Better

You'll get simple approaches to listen, discover the real issues, and co-create solutions. We’ll talk about recognizing the little moments your partner tries to connect, explore your love languages, and find ways to make both of you feel truly loved. No drama, just real connection and growth.

## Highlights

Browse through Ayushi Mathur Dua's best work.

### [Featured](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/featured)

- [Video: Before you even think about marriage, there are some conversations you must have. I learned this firsthand with my own husband. This video covers the top 10 topics, from money to family to past relationships, that you need to discuss to build a solid foundation for your future together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7cf382ab-9013-4d5f-ae69-3c4666611e83)
- [Video: I believe every relationship is a mirror. The things that frustrate you about your partner often show you your own unhealed parts. In this video, I explain the concept of radical responsibility and how shifting your focus from blaming your partner to understanding your own contribution can transform your relationship dynamic.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bb3ad524-b19f-421e-bec0-eda65380f4cf)
- [Video: Do you avoid difficult conversations to "keep the peace"? I used to do that too, but it slowly destroys intimacy. This video is a tough-love reminder that your partner can't fix what they don't know is broken. I challenge you to have one brave, vulnerable conversation this week.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9f692223-836e-429b-bfcf-70e37923f11b)
- [Video: Your attachment style, developed in childhood, is secretly running your love life. Whether you are anxious, avoidant, or secure, it affects who you attract and how you connect. I break down the different styles and explain how you can grow towards a more secure attachment, just like I did.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d7bdf803-9b22-48c9-82d8-3e3d1abdc575)
- [Video: The honeymoon phase doesn't have to end. My husband and I practice specific habits to keep our connection and playfulness alive. This video shares 10 of our favorite practices, from being each other's hype person to putting our phones down, that you can start using today.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6c3a1789-3c03-4f73-94e5-760d8c2b9fdd)
- [Video: How do you know if your partner is truly ready for marriage? It is less about their age or job and more about their emotional maturity. I break down the key indicators, like how they handle your vulnerability and how they repair things after a conflict.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1dd17cc-2587-44b1-b830-0a7cca365386)
- [Video: In my coaching sessions, I often ask one powerful question: "What are you pretending not to know?" Deep down, you already have the answers to your problems. This clip from one of my workshops explains why we avoid our own inner wisdom and how to access it.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0417ed76-3ae6-4969-992b-827344335ce2)
- ![Most couples think the goal of a fight is to win. The happiest couples know the goal is to understand. This is a preview of my Conflict Resolution Blueprint, a four-step guide to help you solve problems without damaging intimacy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/47c6668f-18d9-4eb5-ac7c-5dd67550c190)

### [Marriage Readiness: The Big Conversations](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/marriage-readiness-the-big-conversations)

- [Video: Wondering if your partner is "marriage material"? My husband and I knew we were right for each other because we saw these key signs. This video shows how we aligned on everything from conflict style to long-term vision.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f33c495f-bcf1-493c-80d0-1927c094b349)
- [Video: Here are the uncomfortable but necessary discussions my husband and I had before getting married. We cover everything from debt and career priorities to family boundaries and intimacy expectations. The right person will want to have these talks with you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/305dbb56-2f58-44a3-ab01-7c12ca9ebb48)
- [Video: When is the right time to bring up marriage? Talking about it too soon can be scary, but waiting too long can waste time. I share my tips on how to approach the marriage conversation as a discussion about values and long-term goals, not an interrogation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9ab55d6b-3360-4de7-b05a-9f384181d15b)
- [Video: For my clients who are actively looking for a life partner, I offer three key pieces of advice. This video covers how to discuss values without it feeling like an interview, the importance of seeing your partner in different social settings, and why talking about finances early is non-negotiable.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c62f085c-1f2e-4a7d-9a4a-fd75c9dc5028)
- [Video: Did you know that almost half of all marriages end due to lifestyle incompatibilities that were present from day one? I discuss five crucial lifestyle questions to ask, covering your relationship with time, money, energy patterns, cleanliness, and how you both recharge.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4ca0682f-af83-40bb-94d6-d20312080d07)
- ![This is my pre-commitment checklist. Before you say yes, it is vital to evaluate these ten areas to ensure you are building a life with a true partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d45c5e6e-5ba8-4c13-bc57-65fb5d10fc77)
- ![Value alignment is the bedrock of a lasting marriage. This guide covers key areas like financial habits, family involvement, and work-life balance, where misalignment can cause major issues down the road.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b2deeb9d-8ab7-400f-8ee7-efa6ab98efc8)
- ![Research shows that how you argue predicts relationship longevity with 94% accuracy. This checklist helps you evaluate your partner's conflict resolution style, from their ability to listen without defensiveness to how they cool down after a fight.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/faf5e504-ecc2-4e46-b834-20c52fd40c4f)
- ![Your day-to-day happiness is affected more by life vision compatibility than by romantic chemistry. This guide prompts you to discuss geographic preferences, career ambitions, and desired lifestyles.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/71f76464-4ea5-464f-bff5-1f6cae455255)
- ![Agreeing on family planning is about more than just saying "yes" or "no" to kids. This checklist covers the details: parenting philosophies, the role of extended family, and holiday traditions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4c9eceb3-542e-49e3-8623-f04bce112541)
- ![Financial incompatibility is a primary factor in one in three divorces. This guide covers crucial topics like debt, spending habits, and long-term financial goals to ensure you and your partner are on the same page.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0c06a328-b40d-4d06-8459-3b78b4122317)
- ![Chemistry fades, but true compatibility lasts. This guide introduces the seven factors that truly predict whether your relationship can go the distance.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e2916dce-7189-4cab-a6aa-b2707b12ef1a)
- ![Your communication style is the number one predictor of long-term success. This guide helps you assess whether you and your partner resolve conflicts with ease or avoid tough conversations.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/19a71d1c-5186-45d4-b688-7e6d25b664eb)
- ![It's not about never fighting, it's about how you fight. Do you listen, repair, and grow together, or do your arguments escalate into resentment? This is a key factor in marriage success.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7f68a29f-5a49-4a77-ae4f-f003a975a7c4)
- ![Shared money habits are crucial for a harmonious life together. This guide prompts a conversation about whether you are savers or spenders and if you agree on financial priorities.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/395263bf-7765-4adc-b6e7-4e9db69632cb)
- ![Emotional availability is about showing up for your partner when they need you. This guide helps you determine if your partner is emotionally present or if they tend to shut down and avoid feelings.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e6fc796e-7a75-41e4-9c2d-45833399585b)
- ![A simple but powerful truth about long-term relationships. This image reminds us that while chemistry is exciting, it's the deeper compatibility that sustains a partnership through the years.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5e3703fa-c49b-4510-8b38-c2b5c4627bc2)
- ![Money is one of the top reasons couples break up. This series of questions is designed to help you avoid financial heartbreak by having these crucial conversations early on.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1e30e83e-8632-4ade-ab57-591ae93e2a30)
- ![An introduction to the importance of financial compatibility. Don't let money problems come between you and your partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/111d85a8-a64c-4bd2-be4b-333b2805a175)
- ![What does financial security look like to you? This question helps you and your partner define your visions of a comfortable life, which can vary greatly from person to person.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e99979a7-a343-4ece-8bde-9d34f9eba997)
- ![How do you handle debt? A partner's approach to debt, whether they ignore it or aggressively pay it down, reveals a lot about their financial responsibility.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b3641590-f9ee-4a81-a434-9e0ee2245af5)
- ![Are you a saver or a spender? If you and your partner have different habits, you need a plan to meet in the middle to avoid future conflict.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b6296c62-718c-4e18-9e53-f534fb2c3477)
- ![What's your stance on combining finances? This guide explores the options of separate accounts, joint accounts, or a mix, emphasizing that being on the same page is what matters.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cbcf69c6-c45a-425e-8bbf-99820aaa7832)
- ![Feeling stuck in the search for "The One"? This guide introduces the common cycles that keep people from finding a life partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e94782d8-add8-4b1b-9a86-439c2d65fa85)
- ![Are you using a superficial checklist? Height, income, and profession won't tell you if someone is the right partner for life. It's time to look deeper.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/96a55121-06f7-498e-8d2f-6fb50e48e7cc)
- ![Are you letting family opinions override your gut feeling? While their approval is important, remember that you are the one who has to live with this person every day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/06722e98-79e7-45ea-a7f3-37e31c5920f5)
- ![One of the most common traps is ignoring red flags because of family pressure or the fear of running out of time. This is a cycle that needs to be broken to find a healthy partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/67deec9a-2b23-42d5-a5e7-d1198d58dcc6)
- ![It's easy to confuse non-negotiables with preferences when dating. This guide helps you get clear on the difference so you can focus on what truly matters for long-term success.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1b2b4729-5b59-4314-adf4-25a3877dfcea)
- ![Your non-negotiables are the essentials for relationship success. This includes emotional maturity, shared core values, and mutual respect. These are the foundations you cannot compromise on.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7d9924be-636d-4207-bbcd-ef8131ce147b)
- ![Before you start dating, it's crucial to know your non-negotiables versus your preferences. Non-negotiables are your core values, while preferences are qualities that are nice to have but not essential.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f83e5181-5a0e-43b9-b6bf-5689cfbc484a)
- ![Have you processed your emotional baggage? Unresolved feelings from past experiences don't just disappear, they transfer to new relationships. This is a critical question to ask yourself before dating again.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bdb6e7be-a5a4-4dfa-8589-b1d57d3051e4)

### [Fighting Fair: Communication & Conflict Tools](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/fighting-fair-communication-conflict-tools)

- [Video: Some phrases sound calm but are actually defensive and damaging to your relationship. This video decodes what's really being said with phrases like "I'm sorry you feel that way" and "Let's just drop it," helping you spot and avoid passive aggression.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/27580ce6-b24a-473f-b21d-f60e92361af0)
- [Video: Do you and your partner have the same fight over and over? It's often because resentment is building up from unspoken issues. I explain why it's crucial to communicate in the moment instead of holding onto things, so conflicts can be about the present issue, not the past.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/adb09b64-3db7-458f-9479-66bfb3166f16)
- [Video: If you're constantly venting to friends about your relationship, you've lost control of it. This video explains why outsourcing your relationship problems creates chaos instead of clarity and challenges you to talk to your partner first.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/11fea37b-4612-4e1a-a645-9b1f3e54cd4d)
- [Video: On average, couples wait six years after problems start to seek help. By then, it's often too late. I identify four silent relationship killers, like emotional dismissal and responsibility imbalance, that go unnoticed until they cause irreversible damage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/384da5ed-7a03-426d-ada8-73e6987ae7af)
- ![Did you know that 69% of relationship problems are perpetual issues that will never be "solved"? The goal isn't resolution but productive dialogue that preserves your connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8b8bd331-ad88-4e10-8160-d6f1f1a5a346)
- ![The first step in any conflict is to create safety. This means choosing your timing deliberately and starting the conversation with a gentle "I" statement about your needs, not a complaint about your partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/42daad92-87c5-4554-b7ac-5108593c653c)
- ![The second step is to understand before you try to solve. Listen to understand, not just to respond. The goal is to be able to say, "I can understand why you'd feel that way," even if you don't agree.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e0272ba7-a810-4dc5-8991-97e9c44c73f9)
- ![The third step is to identify the core needs beneath the argument. Most conflicts aren't about the surface issue but about deeper needs like security, connection, or appreciation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b3587b2c-5ef2-4627-8851-36f98a970bcc)
- ![The final step is to co-create solutions. Brainstorm options together and look for experimental agreements that honor both of your core needs, rather than just compromising.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b2f30e7d-b055-465c-8b1c-fde326685065)
- [Video: Setting healthy boundaries, especially with family, starts with proactive communication. In this video, I explain how to talk about your values and needs with kindness and compassion, taking responsibility for your own feelings to create a more receptive conversation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b393783d-2c3f-4ae5-a1ef-e068e52fd60a)
- [Video: Here is a conflict truth bomb: people often want you to feel how they feel. Hurt people hurt people. Understanding this doesn't excuse their behavior, but it can help you detach from your emotional reaction and set boundaries with more clarity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/90de38f8-9d74-488f-bf54-5fee9610caaf)
- ![This series explains the slow, quiet death of a relationship. It doesn't happen with a bang, but with a series of small, unnoticed steps away from each other.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/87793a15-ade6-4066-a9bf-011cf3c5af88)
- ![Phase 1: The Small Rejections. This is where it begins. You stop reaching for each other, and bids for connection go unnoticed. You become like ships passing in the night.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4d17ee34-690d-4bb0-b44e-04385904987c)
- ![Phase 2: The Resentment Build-Up. Unspoken needs start to pile up. You begin keeping score, and every minor annoyance becomes evidence that your partner doesn't care.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6c0da49c-584e-400e-8125-13fbcf1539b9)
- ![Phase 3: The Emotional Distance. You stop sharing your inner world. Conversations become purely logistical, about chores and schedules. You start to feel more like roommates than lovers.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6ebc716a-6c94-4a50-9df2-6521cb6d2f64)
- ![Phase 4: The Parallel Lives. In the final phase, you exist in the same space but live completely separate lives. You've become strangers sharing a home.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/213165b5-63f1-4273-a875-3102de23d59f)
- ![The end of a relationship isn't a loud fight. It's the silence of indifference, when you no longer care enough to even argue. Recognizing this is key to saving the connection before it's too late.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c856b1c5-b702-4010-8cd1-fec3f72f48e0)
- ![It's not the presence of conflict that predicts divorce, but how couples communicate during it. This guide introduces different communication styles to help you understand your dynamic.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8795e01b-d359-4880-b266-86c5bb0d22be)
- ![Research shows that 90% of relationship distress comes from communication problems, not personality differences. Understanding your style is the first step to improving how you connect.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c4e7b40c-2d67-408f-b10a-e0fc886cf6b8)
- ![The Validator listens before responding and focuses on understanding their partner's feelings. This style has high compatibility with most other styles.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a70d737a-6598-4d01-8956-bd192d217e9f)
- ![The Problem-Solver jumps quickly to solutions and values efficiency. While logical, this style can sometimes miss the emotional nuances of a conversation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/aafb20c8-57da-49f2-9857-b68a53a004ab)
- ![The Emoter expresses feelings intensely and processes things out loud. They value deep emotional connection but can sometimes overwhelm partners who are less expressive.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2a49e036-b798-4173-8f18-c18bf7b15584)
- ![The Avoider retreats from conflict and needs space to process. They value peace and harmony but can struggle with direct confrontation, which is challenging for Emoters.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/efc5e685-9ce1-478a-b46b-3f1c4357bd50)
- ![Do you ever feel like you're speaking different languages when it comes to love? This guide decodes the five love languages to help you bridge the communication gap.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/192b6591-1071-4643-80da-2399b06ae959)
- ![You love them, but they don't feel it. This is a classic sign of mismatched love languages. Understanding how your partner gives and receives love is essential.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0ce5bce2-44ab-4d89-ad1e-53b4db967fc0)
- ![The miscommunication cycle happens when you show love in your language, but your partner "hears" a different one. This leads to both partners feeling unappreciated despite trying.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ffc1eac0-3a56-4ee2-805e-6990e8c81f2b)
- ![Language 1: Words of Affirmation. These individuals process love verbally through compliments, encouragement, and appreciation. They aren't needy; this is simply how they feel loved.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0911e5d0-18d1-4a98-80ac-e633b541b165)
- ![Language 2: Quality Time. For these individuals, love is about undivided attention. It's not about the quantity of time but the quality of engagement, with phones away and full presence.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7387db9d-f45f-4f89-8839-4d31c59a03ec)
- ![Language 3: Physical Touch. This isn't just about sexual intimacy. Daily non-sexual touch like hugs and hand-holding is about connection and feeling safe.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/20dbb5da-c9f3-4436-a8e8-3cee27c84170)
- [Video: Here is a powerful question to ask yourself: If your partner couldn't speak, would their actions still make you feel loved? Words are easy, but actions reveal the truth.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/02612f8d-571f-418f-98ea-9b080d7687e7)

### [The Science of Love: Attachment, Trauma & Your Brain](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/the-science-of-love-attachment-trauma-your-brain)

- [Video: Have you been lied to about soulmates? This video explains the neuroscience behind attraction. That feeling of "chemistry" or "butterflies" is often your nervous system signaling danger, not love. Healthy love feels calm and safe.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7a667075-c68f-438e-937e-6006bfe6947f)
- [Video: Why does your partner pull away when things get serious? It's not their personality, it's their attachment style. I break down the four main styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized) and explain how they are formed by childhood wounds.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ad4ab74d-5057-4b3b-ab3a-4e6bfdaa5a8b)
- [Video: Why do smart people make irrational relationship choices? It's because your emotional brain, which runs on an ancient survival system, operates independently from your logical brain. I explain how your "attachment blueprint" drives your choices and how you can begin to heal it.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4339fe4e-53dc-4553-a60e-e7ebbe1fb552)
- [Video: Your emotions are literally contagious because of "mirror neurons" in your brain. If you feel anxious on a date, your date will feel anxious too. I explain how to regulate your emotional state to create feelings of confidence and joy instead.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/253227f7-abe8-4712-9ee3-5cd3d2a23900)
- ![Your trauma responses are often disguised as preferences. The "butterflies" you chase might actually be your body's alarm system. This is your brain seeking what's familiar, even if it's painful.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/05b16ac1-d62f-44b4-92e0-7ce678d98091)
- ![Your subconscious is running a program you didn't even install. These programs, formed in childhood, dictate your relationship patterns. The good news is, you can overwrite this coding with conscious work.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3b3ac82c-22b4-4cfa-9637-51dcbd557e5d)
- ![The Abandonment Wound often shows up as clinging to partners or testing their commitment. It comes from being physically or emotionally left by caregivers, which taught you that love isn't permanent.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/452cfb95-032a-4226-a71c-c6f81fd70b14)
- ![The Betrayal Wound can make it difficult to trust or be vulnerable. It often stems from a past experience where someone you trusted broke that trust, teaching you that people aren't safe.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7ed035c7-815c-455d-9cd3-e6bbe0175977)
- ![The Injustice Wound shows up as score-keeping in relationships and expecting reciprocity for every gesture. It's rooted in childhood experiences of unfairness or favoritism.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9d4176a6-7f03-48ed-8f5e-53ef99113ea1)
- [Video: Anger is often a secondary emotion that masks something deeper. We resort to anger because it feels more powerful than admitting we feel hurt, unseen, or vulnerable. Understanding this is key to managing your reactions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/071dce32-1794-460d-9ad9-d6c3300da75d)

### [Deepening Your Bond: Friendship, Fun & Intimacy](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/deepening-your-bond-friendship-fun-intimacy)

- [Video: I asked my husband, "Pyaar kya hai?" (What is love?). His answer: "Friendship." This video is a reminder that being best friends with your partner, where you can be yourself and have fun, is the foundation for a lasting, happy marriage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6ce8368a-7118-4956-9a90-9fdbe687b90d)
- [Video: The most underrated relationship skill is the ability to be completely ridiculous together. Playfulness builds inside jokes, releases the bonding hormone oxytocin, and creates a safe space to be imperfect. The couples who last are the ones who have mastered being goofballs.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/aeeaffcc-2b25-4454-9702-c9ccbd1e9510)
- [Video: What do the strongest couples have in common? This video, filmed at the living root bridges in Meghalaya, lists 10 traits psychologists have identified, from setting boundaries with family to supporting each other's dreams.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6adcbbec-1f35-486d-910c-a2d042243d6b)
- [Video: He says he loves you, but what does that really mean? Love without consistent communication, emotional safety, and shared responsibility is just a word. This guide outlines the real bare minimum for a healthy relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4114ba1c-cfce-4b03-9e6a-c80598d917d0)
- [Video: Physical attraction gets attention, but emotional safety creates lasting love. I explain how to create a space where your partner can be their authentic self by listening without judgment, validating their feelings, and being consistent in your words and actions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d23b9996-d064-4421-83d7-0759752becac)
- [Video: Couples who dream together, stay together. Having a shared vision is one of the strongest bonds you can have. I discuss different types of shared dreams and how to discover them with your partner, becoming co-creators of a beautiful life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/58e3d0e5-fced-457e-a73b-bd8d3ae1984a)
- [Video: Here's a five-second test to predict relationship success: When your partner succeeds at something, what is your first, unfiltered reaction? Genuine celebration of each other's wins, without competition, is a sign of a true partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/68d3314f-b4ad-4157-97ba-6d006ae64001)
- [Video: Commitment and marriage require daily hard work. In this video, my husband and I share how small, thoughtful gestures, like him warming up my office or me preparing his post-game protein, are the tiny investments that build a strong, happy life together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c5767dd5-96ea-426a-bf9b-26bf30f55234)
- [Video: Do you and your partner have very different interests? That's okay. In this video, my husband and I explain how showing genuine curiosity in each other's passions, even if you don't share them, is a powerful act of love and a way to make your partner feel seen.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/485349c0-3f02-4865-9e9e-954d3efc21b1)
- [Video: My husband and I have found that car rides are a goldmine for connection. We use this time to explore each other's feelings, revisit past conflicts with curiosity, and listen to podcasts that spark meaningful discussions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2936e92b-0f12-45ab-a773-2f22f73f7555)
- [Video: Don't let the things that once excited you become the new normal. Taking your partner for granted is a slow poison. I explain how practicing gratitude for the small things they do every day is the key to rekindling love and appreciation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d382922a-ee55-4ee1-948b-723e82575490)
- [Video: They lied to us. It's not the journey, and it's not the destination. It's the company that truly matters. This video is a reminder to surround yourself with people who celebrate you and make you feel seen.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a748f4ce-82a2-4a29-b6fc-e0e6eacd788f)
- [Video: Most people think love is enough, but it's not. This video explains the three things that actually determine if your relationship will last: effective communication, shared values, and emotional adaptability.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a4adc2de-4b67-49d5-9ca9-87c6a8223c8d)
- [Video: A relationship should fuel you and make you a better person. It starts with alignment. My husband and I love listening to podcasts together on road trips because it helps us grow together and stay aligned on our vision.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c5bb23d8-8c43-4e4b-ac0f-9b0c7c2a7bef)
- [Video: Mentally strong people build healthy relationships. This video lists seven things they always do, including communicating effectively, embracing vulnerability, and taking responsibility.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e766c7f0-165b-4d9a-b054-69db62e9bab2)
- [Video: How do you know if someone is good for you? This video offers 10 powerful questions to ask yourself, such as "Can I be my authentic self around this person?" and "Do I feel energized by their presence?".](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b6951194-fe46-4713-bb06-5324c825f582)
- ![Is it true love or just attachment? This guide provides 10 signs to help you tell the difference.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c4211ced-ba92-4cf5-8123-79b97a36cb6a)
- ![Sign #1 of true love: They feel like home. You can be completely yourself around them, with no masks or pretending. There's a sense of belonging that feels right and true.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f6f03f1e-01c6-4ba2-ab83-75b06b281507)
- ![Sign #2 of true love: Their happiness is your happiness. You genuinely celebrate their wins as if they were your own.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/21e981a5-b11e-458a-a53a-17404ea929d3)
- ![Sign #3 of true love: Challenges strengthen rather than break you. When life gets difficult, you instinctively turn toward each other, not away.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b9e62eb9-ea15-487f-81af-48d593e3b0ee)
- ![Sign #4 of true love: You can disagree safely. You can express different opinions without the relationship feeling at risk.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6f66a0ec-1cf5-4f5d-aa2a-e4fb6cd5ee4b)
- ![Sign #5 of true love: You share core values. While your personalities may differ, you align on what truly matters in life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/13d12abc-12ba-4108-85c3-282e0fcea8c6)
- ![The best marriages start as deep friendships. This guide explores the research-backed foundation of lasting love.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3233c64c-89be-4181-bb64-e33df0c79c10)
- ![Research from the Gottman Institute found that couples who describe their spouse as their "best friend" report much higher marital satisfaction and resilience.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4a2531a3-211a-4806-89ec-ee84ef083e37)
- ![Element #1 of marital friendship is Cognitive Intimacy. This is the ability to share thoughts, ideas, and worldviews, which builds resilience during challenging times.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/feb3d961-795b-43f6-a340-2a7927b44f91)
- ![Element #2 is Experiential Intimacy. Shared experiences create a bank of positive memories. Research shows a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions is needed to maintain connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/faa587f4-ec65-406e-8aa6-4b51be6e1beb)
- ![Element #3 is Emotional Intimacy. This is the safety to be vulnerable about fears, dreams, and insecurities, which creates a sense of biological safety in the relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/882ec67f-8ba1-48b9-b24b-7ee32d59c960)
- ![Element #4 is Play Compatibility. The ability to laugh together and enjoy mutual fun is a better predictor of relationship longevity than shared interests.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f10bdfdc-02eb-45f0-8913-34bd9177951e)

### [Navigating Family Dynamics](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/navigating-family-dynamics)

- [Video: When you meet your partner's family, it's not just about making a good impression. It's a chance to observe their family dynamics. I share what to watch for, from how they handle conflict to how your partner treats you in front of them.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/56ab4ac4-8fda-403e-856c-a6e8a6f73df9)
- [Video: Is it okay to set boundaries with family? Yes. You are not obligated to be close to anyone who repeatedly hurts you, even if they are family. This clip from a workshop Q&A gives you permission to distance yourself to protect your peace.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/20bda9c7-c751-43a7-a582-cabb5d6dcffa)
- [Video: As a bride-to-be, people kept telling me "this is your last Diwali at home." I decided to shift my perspective. This video is a reminder that marriage means gaining a second family to love and celebrate with.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/553d14a3-e0e9-4e69-b4e2-5660a6411487)
- [Video: A spiritual boundary is your right to practice your faith or spirituality in a way that feels true to you, without anyone else dictating how you should do it. This is a crucial boundary to establish in any relationship, including with family.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c72ecb6e-2768-4c6d-8120-b964da15f02a)

### [The Inner Work: Self-Awareness & Personal Growth](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/the-inner-work-self-awareness-personal-growth)

- [Video: You attract who you are, not what you want. If you want a confident, emotionally available partner, you must first embody those qualities yourself. This video explains why becoming the person you want to attract is more effective than chasing them.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cf626fe2-7d41-43be-a6bc-07d1d4ef8e80)
- [Video: Many people visualize their ideal relationship, but they forget to ask: "How will I contribute to it?" This video challenges you to reflect on how you will show up as a healthy, emotionally available partner in your own ideal relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a22e5da3-b9c4-4efd-bbeb-05e5d594c449)
- [Video: The relationship you have with yourself governs everything in your life. Your self-worth and self-esteem define how you show up in your career and your relationships. This video explains why self-love is the foundation for everything.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a754b55a-90b2-4d83-8b18-04861a71bde2)
- [Video: If you don't know who you are, the world will tell you. Self-awareness is the first step to building a strong identity and creating the life you want. This video is a call to get to know yourself before letting others define you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1ddd65b4-d808-4dad-92d4-20ab68d7c9ea)
- [Video: Couples who laugh together, stay together. Humor is a sign of intelligence and creativity, and it's a powerful tool for connection. I explain the difference between humor that attracts and humor that repels.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bddd27d9-91d9-4283-80f5-7966e4a37010)
- [Video: In a world full of distractions, your presence is your superpower. Being fully present with someone is rare and incredibly attractive. I explain what true presence looks like and why it's so crucial in modern dating.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a327fc79-0954-4e8f-9f44-298b3f26b818)
- [Video: The attraction paradox: we are drawn to people who are similar enough to feel safe, but different enough to be exciting. I explain how to find the sweet spot between shared values and complementary differences.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4137750a-d5eb-446e-ba8a-46eee6da5e9e)
- [Video: We often think vulnerability is a weakness, but it's actually a secret weapon for deep attraction. Being vulnerable doesn't mean oversharing; it means being real, admitting when you don't know something, and asking for what you need.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6d6fd1f9-3859-4bc0-ad05-3f26f590762e)
- [Video: Everything that exists contains the seed of what will be. Change is the only constant in the universe. This video is a reflection on a powerful quote from "Meditations" and the importance of embracing change to thrive.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5658edd4-a1a7-472c-a51a-c436262def5f)
- [Video: We often talk about the "girlfriend effect," but let's talk about the "boyfriend effect." Being with a safe, masculine partner has allowed me to relax and embrace my feminine side. This video is a reflection on how the right partner can help you heal and grow.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cbbb7c49-920e-4e69-b18e-cfa88f1cade9)
- [Video: Not taking things personally is a superpower. This video offers five mindset tricks to develop a thick skin and radiate confidence, including the "10% Hater Rule" and reframing negative feedback.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/104eb6d4-d1bf-4c97-af17-3a741441ca0a)
- [Video: How do you calm emotional triggers? The first step is awareness. I explain how to trace your reactions back to an unmet need and how to soothe yourself when those triggers arise.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0b1356c2-28e7-42a1-8513-a99a66dc88b9)
- ![A simple but profound truth. The magic you are searching for is hiding in the work you are avoiding.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ae52f5ba-62eb-46a9-a698-804708c2b4c9)
- ![Are you waiting for magic to happen? This image is a reminder that you have to take the leap and do the work to create the life you want.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3857f096-f10a-48a7-8405-91f037c74655)
- [Video: This is a guide to the seven signs that you are truly healing. These signs include letting go with peace instead of fear, accepting yourself, and finding joy on the other side of your pain.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0b349673-a372-4cf2-9317-f1113384538f)
- ![You can't learn relationship skills in isolation. It's like trying to learn to swim without ever getting in the water. True growth happens in connection with others.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/de00a31e-43af-43e4-9fd7-9ceee1f6574e)
- ![If you still define love as a perfect feeling that should always be easy, you're not ready for the reality of a real relationship. Love is a choice you make every day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3c6ab779-83f7-4cb4-ab86-a38d6067b312)
- ![If you put people on trial for your own insecurities, you're not ready for a relationship. It's not your partner's job to solve your trust issues. That is your own inner work to do.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8ff877fa-cb31-4cfe-bf40-4ec15ae5e96d)
- ![If change is still extremely painful for you, you may not be ready for a partnership. Being someone's partner requires flexibility and the willingness to grow and compromise.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cc0fd68d-9909-4363-918b-531d518b3732)
- ![This guide explores 10 key differences between showing up as a "girl" versus a "woman" in a relationship, focusing on emotional maturity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/14166475-b2ae-44da-a9bd-2de8cd1ae49e)
- ![This guide will help you identify patterns of immature versus mature relationship behaviors, so you can embrace growth for healthier connections.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2cbb83f5-9249-442d-80fd-c4fc473f8e24)
- ![Communication Style: A girl might use passive-aggressive behavior or the silent treatment. A woman communicates her feelings directly and respectfully, focusing on resolution.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/77385942-d860-4b0f-aeb3-47479b3af9c9)
- ![Independence: A girl may seek constant validation and become overly dependent. A woman maintains her own identity, interests, and friendships while being committed to the relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/729c2887-4d23-4150-b568-5b1c886c45b7)
- ![Handling Conflict: A girl might avoid difficult conversations or create drama. A woman approaches conflicts as opportunities for growth and understanding.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5425c305-87ee-486a-8b5c-be231b12e6ee)
- ![Financial Responsibility: A girl may expect her partner to handle all finances. A woman contributes fairly and makes responsible financial choices with her partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e61167f5-e699-40ad-9655-4e27e793fd9b)
- ![Are you dating a boy or a man? This guide explores 10 differences, focusing on emotional intelligence and maturity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/78f133b5-a32a-412e-9962-535ac90e9953)
- ![When difficulties arise, we see the true difference between boy psychology and mature masculinity. A boy reacts from his wounds, while a mature man responds from his grounded core.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8432941c-85a2-4d2a-9ce7-67da10424409)
- ![Crucial Conversations: A boy avoids difficult conversations. A man initiates them with courage and care, knowing that true intimacy requires vulnerability.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c5d47324-9ad3-46d0-a86d-bc7fcfb226f3)
- ![Taking Responsibility: A boy blames others when things go wrong. A man takes responsibility for his part, understanding that accountability is about integrity and growth.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8cd68f4f-5aa4-4948-8048-e329b97e8a71)
- [Video: Do the men in your life seem emotionally unavailable? It's often because no one has ever held space for them to feel their feelings safely. This video is a call for us to listen with the intent to understand, not to fix.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/285cb2e9-106f-4c0c-a443-426d5b252a0d)
- [Video: For Men's Mental Health Month, this is my message to men and women. Men, it's okay to express your emotional needs. Women, we need to hold space for the men in our lives to share their feelings without fear of judgment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/dff7b708-c1a3-4939-a562-bac1534a620c)

### [Our Story: My Wedding & Our Journey](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/our-story-my-wedding-our-journey)

- ![A candid moment from our wedding ceremony. For someone who writes so much, I was at a loss for words looking at these photos. This was truly the happiest day of my life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/af4d03e1-e163-492c-ab26-098545570297)
- ![A quiet, happy moment during our wedding ceremony. My husband's love and care give me the confidence to step out into the world with my head held high.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d3fd1f6a-40e8-4293-888c-0c66f9c86edf)
- ![A playful, candid shot from our wedding day. The joy in this photo is a testament to the friendship that is the foundation of our marriage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0126575f-ee9e-425d-b6b3-6948edb7ea14)
- ![A traditional moment from our Hindu wedding ceremony, as my husband applies the sindoor. This symbolized the official start of our journey as husband and wife.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/040a274f-7f2e-4a56-a566-c1e3a4955bf6)
- ![Performing the wedding rituals together. Every step of the ceremony felt like a promise to always choose each other and grow together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b82c4d06-663e-435d-ae6c-62426c019a3f)
- ![Another beautiful moment from our wedding rituals. We promised to always choose love over everything, and that's a promise we work on every day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/28fd84d3-1ffb-452f-a321-20a0d618cc32)
- ![When reality is better than your dreams, you know you've found your person. This moment from our Varmala (garland exchange) ceremony, surrounded by friends and family, felt absolutely magical.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/617e3bf5-f43e-4afc-9bb3-d80872b7586e)
- ![Our first kiss as husband and wife. A perfect moment that sealed our commitment to a lifetime together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4e1ca79d-1ea7-450d-90da-2c08e43321fd)
- ![My bridal entry. I was so full of joy walking towards the man I was going to spend my life with.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/62446359-924d-46ce-8fb8-5e3bee265cd8)
- ![A full-length shot of my bridal lehenga. I felt like the happiest bride in the world on this day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0c27ab7c-5e40-493d-ac48-d0685c6738d1)
- ![A beautiful portrait from our wedding photoshoot. The architecture of the venue provided a stunning backdrop for our pictures.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/43776a09-295c-48e5-9da0-ee83f76d8ed8)
- ![A formal portrait of us on our wedding day. We chose traditional outfits that reflected our culture and the solemnity of the occasion.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bbeb0d74-3fff-4624-a573-b50b6eb7d875)
- ![A romantic shot against the sunset. The golden light perfectly captured the warmth and love we felt.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/58ecec56-09ed-4351-ba69-065fd4a22c35)
- ![A sweet, intimate moment captured during our wedding photoshoot. It's these small gestures of affection that mean the most.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/554dc774-5947-4658-aece-66338588964f)
- [Video: Celebrating one year since our engagement. This was one of my favorite days, marking the official start of our journey towards marriage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d2cb56f9-013c-40f9-a71d-08a34eaea29a)
- ![A photo from our engagement, just 15 days before our wedding. The anticipation and excitement were building every day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/78c7fae1-713f-42bf-9faa-124abbe5707e)
- [Video: We are breaking gender roles in our marriage. He cooks, I cook. He earns, she earns. This video shows a glimpse into our kitchen, where we share chores and do things as a team.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/50c33add-142d-489f-908f-d8864f4871df)

### [In The Media: Workshops & Podcast Features](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching/in-the-media-workshops-podcast-features)

- [Video: A clip from one of my workshops where I talk about the importance of "simping" for your partner. If you've chosen this one person out of billions, why shouldn't you pour your love and effort into them?](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3248e737-694c-4aa2-8c91-c125b45d43bd)
- [Video: A snippet from my appearance on the DopeBaat podcast, where I discuss common relationship mistakes, including how our parents' relationship becomes our default blueprint.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/db488c90-855a-4e8b-a3b2-59d32fb8c7f7)
- [Video: In this podcast clip, I discuss how low self-worth leads people to settle for unhealthy relationships, creating a cycle of attracting toxic partners. The work starts with building a relationship with yourself.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c2e33295-2a53-4c05-9a42-468c88899e53)
- [Video: It's scary to be vulnerable when dating. In this podcast, I explain why it's crucial to be honest and communicative about your long-term goals from day one to avoid wasting time.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c1a1effd-f830-4616-bafa-20d336c70190)
- [Video: What does it mean to be vulnerable? In this podcast clip, I explain that it's about peeling back the layers and showing your authentic self, and why you shouldn't wait months to talk about the important stuff.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/92603bf6-ed2b-4b8b-b0aa-0da87b7be5f9)
- [Video: A trailer from my appearance on the RAWR with Sneha podcast, where I discuss the secrets of modern dating and what's really going wrong in relationships today.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/224c0f0b-0360-4adc-8b22-f94f5593b6c5)
- [Video: A clip from the Kissey Podcast where a listener shares a story about a difficult breakup. I discuss how it's okay for some relationships to end before you find the right one.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3c911a5e-7488-4790-b788-c2441ff5b8d2)
- [Video: On the Kissey Podcast, I share a personal story about being in a relationship with someone who was cheating and use it to explain what gaslighting is and how it feels.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c1cdcac7-9625-48cb-bc21-91dcfa68afa8)
- ![A photo from my talk on personal branding for entrepreneurs at Christ University, Bangalore. I believe building your personal brand is the first step to starting a successful company.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/97d5b088-929e-49ae-a9a0-9f1dbb023f05)
- ![Speaking to students at Christ University. I shared my key takeaways on how to build a reliable and visible personal brand on platforms like LinkedIn and Instagram.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/733dfa91-7ddd-4afb-bd29-768aa43ed712)
- [Video: Why does it seem like younger generations are more focused on mental health? In this video, I use Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs to explain that it's not that we suffer more, but that we have the safety and security to focus on higher needs like love, belonging, and self-esteem.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/be18c690-33e3-4ba5-b9a3-1e08629a1c02)
- [Video: You don't pick relationships based on pleasure; you pick them based on purpose. This video explains why alignment on goals and direction is more important for long-term success than just "vibing" with someone.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2e32dbfa-efbd-4a6f-8d17-0b4a10c9660b)

## Meet your expert

[Ayushi Mathur Dua](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur)

### My story

I’m Ayushi. Used to be the clingy, anxious one—yep, texting all day, always scared of being left. Hit rock bottom, zero self-worth. Took a month off, did my own 28-day self-love thing. Small steps, big shifts. Failed at a bunch of jobs, learned from every mess. Now, I help people build secure attachment and real confidence. If you start loving yourself, I’m doing what I’m meant to do.

### My work

- **What I do**: 1:1 coaching, couple sessions, relationship retreats. We work on dating, marriage, confidence, emotional regulation, and secure attachment coaching.
- **Deep healing, not quick fixes**: Neurodivergent relationship coaching. We go into childhood stuff, subconscious patterns. Not just advice—real change.
- **Tools for fighting fair**: Learn conflict resolution for couples. I’ll help you talk about hard things and actually get closer.
- **Radical responsibility**: Your relationship shows your unhealed bits. I’ll guide you to own your part, not just blame.
- **Who I work with**: You gotta be ready to get honest and do the shadow work. No shortcuts, just real foundations.

## More services from Ayushi Mathur Dua

- [Individual Relationship Coaching](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/individual-relationship-coaching) · ₹1,000-3,000 per session (estimate)
- [Relationship Workshops & Retreats](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/relationship-workshops-retreats) · ₹32-70K per person per retreat (estimate)

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