--- title: "Relationship Coaching for Couples – Confidence Building with Ayushi Mathur Dua - mytribe" description: "Transform your relationships with expert Relationship Coaching. Ayushi Mathur Dua helps couples build confidence and master conflict resolution for lasting connection. Book a session for deep, real change." canonical: https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur last_updated: 2024-09-17 --- # Ayushi Mathur Dua I offer relationship coaching for individuals and couples, focusing on building secure confidence and healthy conflict resolution skills. We'll skip the quick fixes to work on deep healing and radical responsibility, empowering you to find your own answers. ## Services ### [Couples & Marriage Coaching](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/couples-marriage-coaching) Online sessions Typically ₹1,500-4,000 per session (estimate) - [Video: Before you even think about marriage, there are some conversations you must have. I learned this firsthand with my own husband. This video covers the top 10 topics, from money to family to past relationships, that you need to discuss to build a solid foundation for your future together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7cf382ab-9013-4d5f-ae69-3c4666611e83) - [Video: I believe every relationship is a mirror. The things that frustrate you about your partner often show you your own unhealed parts. In this video, I explain the concept of radical responsibility and how shifting your focus from blaming your partner to understanding your own contribution can transform your relationship dynamic.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bb3ad524-b19f-421e-bec0-eda65380f4cf) - [Video: Do you avoid difficult conversations to "keep the peace"? I used to do that too, but it slowly destroys intimacy. This video is a tough-love reminder that your partner can't fix what they don't know is broken. I challenge you to have one brave, vulnerable conversation this week.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9f692223-836e-429b-bfcf-70e37923f11b) - [Video: Your attachment style, developed in childhood, is secretly running your love life. Whether you are anxious, avoidant, or secure, it affects who you attract and how you connect. I break down the different styles and explain how you can grow towards a more secure attachment, just like I did.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d7bdf803-9b22-48c9-82d8-3e3d1abdc575) - [Video: The honeymoon phase doesn't have to end. My husband and I practice specific habits to keep our connection and playfulness alive. This video shares 10 of our favorite practices, from being each other's hype person to putting our phones down, that you can start using today.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6c3a1789-3c03-4f73-94e5-760d8c2b9fdd) - [Video: How do you know if your partner is truly ready for marriage? It is less about their age or job and more about their emotional maturity. I break down the key indicators, like how they handle your vulnerability and how they repair things after a conflict.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1dd17cc-2587-44b1-b830-0a7cca365386) - [Video: In my coaching sessions, I often ask one powerful question: "What are you pretending not to know?" Deep down, you already have the answers to your problems. This clip from one of my workshops explains why we avoid our own inner wisdom and how to access it.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0417ed76-3ae6-4969-992b-827344335ce2) - ![Most couples think the goal of a fight is to win. The happiest couples know the goal is to understand. This is a preview of my Conflict Resolution Blueprint, a four-step guide to help you solve problems without damaging intimacy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/47c6668f-18d9-4eb5-ac7c-5dd67550c190) ### [Individual Relationship Coaching](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/individual-relationship-coaching) Online sessions Typically ₹1,000-3,000 per session (estimate) - [Video: **The person you're complaining about is showing you exactly who you are.** Every relationship is a mirror, and often, we don't like what we see. If you find yourself frustrated with a partner's flaws, it's time to look at what they might be reflecting about your own unhealed parts. This isn't about blame; it's about taking radical responsibility for your role in the dynamic. When you change your steps in the dance, the entire relationship can transform.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bb3ad524-b19f-421e-bec0-eda65380f4cf) - [Video: **If you're struggling to overcome a heartbreak, I want to challenge you.** Are you holding onto false hope that they might come back? This hope keeps you stuck. I want you to ask yourself why you're putting them on a pedestal, giving them the power to choose you. It's time to stop waiting to be chosen and start choosing yourself. You are worthy of a love that doesn't require you to wait.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/eef6ec24-9e1e-47c9-bc4b-85ba2840401d) - [Video: **Okay ladies, this one's for you. The moment your gut says no, it means no.** It's easy to confuse your gut feeling with fear, but there's a key difference. Fear comes with a lot of chatter and "what ifs," while your gut is a single, clear voice. Scientifically, your gut is your subconscious processing thousands of data points faster than your logical brain. Learning to trust this inner intelligence is a superpower in dating and in life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ddb082fb-398d-45ea-8af5-261f92a901ac) - [Video: **This is how I stopped being "needy" in relationships.** As someone who has an anxious attachment style, I used to suffocate my partners with constant texts and questions, always fearing abandonment. The real shift happened when I started working on myself, building my own identity, and learning to find security within. This is my personal story of moving from anxious attachment to a secure and fulfilling love.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f75a699c-e01e-49bb-919c-0d1997505745) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9d86f9f9-9106-4eef-a294-4288b98c0a26) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/627dfe72-2c0f-4698-bf80-92cbce5c9a9e) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/05b16ac1-d62f-44b4-92e0-7ce678d98091) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/acf05034-b9b0-4aa4-ac26-d24ee805cbd8) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9c0f3fa9-0cf8-4098-a143-604901de1e22) - ![**Some of the biggest dating red flags actually feel like green flags at first.** That "electric chemistry" might be your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction, not a soulmate connection. This guide breaks down common traps, like mistaking intensity for intimacy or codependency for connection. Understanding these patterns is the first step to stop attracting what's familiar and start attracting what's healthy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d79a9a40-9841-4f3c-bc74-b625a8affd07) - [Video: **Want to know if someone is actually ready for marriage? Forget their age or job.** The real test is in their emotional readiness. Observe how they handle your vulnerability, how they process their own emotions, and how they repair connection after a conflict. These behaviors are the strongest predictors of relationship longevity and success.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1dd17cc-2587-44b1-b830-0a7cca365386) - [Video: **Confidence isn't something you're born with; it's built through action.** I spent years with zero self-confidence, and what changed everything was taking small, consistent actions of self-love. Confidence kya hai? It's about doing it scared. It's about showing up for yourself, even when you're afraid, and letting those actions fill your confidence bucket, one drop at a time.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b76b762c-4eec-46fb-9511-960b5299c178) ### [Relationship Workshops & Retreats](https://mytribe.in/theayushimathur/relationship-workshops-retreats) Workshops in major cities & retreats across India Typically ₹32-70K per person per retreat (estimate) - [Video: This is what breaking through your self-imposed limits feels like. The moment you realize you can withstand the cold, you understand you can handle anything life throws at you. This is a core part of my LBD Retreats, where we face our fears to build real, unshakable confidence.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a3ba3c9e-3a7e-4c3e-a4a9-7f6887c02bec) - [Video: The people you attract are mirrors. If you keep finding yourself in the same frustrating relationship dynamics, the first place to look is within. This is the core of my philosophy: taking radical responsibility to change your own part of the dance, which is the only way to change the entire relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bb3ad524-b19f-421e-bec0-eda65380f4cf) - [Video: "It's my home." "It's magic." "It's self-reflection." These are not my words, but the words of people who have come to my LBD Retreats as strangers and left as family. Hear directly from them what it feels like to be in a space where you are safe, seen, and celebrated.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/38a08fcd-9624-47bf-b0e6-51535545a2a7) - [Video: Ever wonder why you're drawn to partners who pull away, or why you get clingy? It's not a personality flaw, it's your attachment style, a blueprint formed in childhood. Understanding whether you are anxious, avoidant, or secure is the first step to breaking the cycle and building a healthy relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ad4ab74d-5057-4b3b-ab3a-4e6bfdaa5a8b) - ![The patterns that sabotage your adult relationships often start as wounds in your childhood. This is a look at the five common inner child wounds, from the fear of abandonment to the feeling of not being good enough. Recognizing your wound is the first step to healing it.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/44cb47cf-ddb1-41c7-8477-da6d9777ccd0) - ![This is where the work happens. In my workshops, I use tools like whiteboarding to break down complex emotional concepts into simple, actionable steps. It’s not just about talking; it’s about learning and applying practical frameworks for real-life change.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2fa8a7a8-38da-4fcc-a9f4-d2ac4046105e) - [Video: I used to be the person who suffocated partners with neediness because of my anxious attachment. I share my story openly because I want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle, and that it is possible to heal and build a secure, loving relationship with yourself and others.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f75a699c-e01e-49bb-919c-0d1997505745) - [Video: If you find yourself getting skeptical or scared when someone shows you genuine love, it's often because your own love for yourself is conditional. At my retreats, we work on peeling back these layers so you can finally allow yourself to receive the love you deserve.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0b93543f-f050-49f2-abe8-d4a8f63bb048) ## Meet your expert ### My story I’m Ayushi. Used to be the clingy, anxious one—yep, texting all day, always scared of being left. Hit rock bottom, zero self-worth. Took a month off, did my own 28-day self-love thing. Small steps, big shifts. Failed at a bunch of jobs, learned from every mess. Now, I help people build secure attachment and real confidence. If you start loving yourself, I’m doing what I’m meant to do. ### My work - **What I do**: 1:1 coaching, couple sessions, relationship retreats. We work on dating, marriage, confidence, emotional regulation, and secure attachment coaching. - **Deep healing, not quick fixes**: Neurodivergent relationship coaching. We go into childhood stuff, subconscious patterns. Not just advice—real change. - **Tools for fighting fair**: Learn conflict resolution for couples. I’ll help you talk about hard things and actually get closer. - **Radical responsibility**: Your relationship shows your unhealed bits. I’ll guide you to own your part, not just blame. - **Who I work with**: You gotta be ready to get honest and do the shadow work. No shortcuts, just real foundations.