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title: "Personal Style Tips & Wardrobe Advice | Jaya Kumari Stylist"
description: "Learn how to find your personal style with tips from Bengaluru stylist Jaya Kumari. Discover how to build a lasting wardrobe and stop following trends blindly."
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last_updated: 2025-09-06
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# My Personal Style Journey & Fashion Thoughts

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By [Jaya Kumari](https://mytribe.in/stylistjayakumari) · Available Online & Travels across Bengaluru · ₹7,000 per package (estimate)

Part of [Personal Styling & Wardrobe Consulting](https://mytribe.in/stylistjayakumari/personal-styling-wardrobe-consulting). [View full gallery](https://mytribe.in/stylistjayakumari/personal-styling-wardrobe-consulting/gallery)

Ever feel like your closet is full but you have nothing to wear? Let's fix that. Here is a peek into how I find my own style, manage my wardrobe, and make everyday fashion decisions simpler.

## Photos and videos

- [Video: I want to share a personal story about a time I felt insecure because of an outfit. If you've ever felt that way, remember it's the clothes that are wrong for you, not the other way around. You just need to find the right fit.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5eb0e169-43c2-4572-81c3-5b291bd37faf)
- [Video: My unpopular opinion: you think you have nothing to wear because you don't have a personal style, not because you don't have enough clothes. Don't just follow trends; find an aesthetic that works for your personality and lifestyle.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7d2e3c0d-4d11-4323-893d-024e8843be36)
- [Video: Here are three reasons why you should never hire a personal stylist, presented with a bit of sarcasm. In reality, I can help you find your authentic style, feel more confident, and save money while shopping.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bea22c32-7c6c-4328-88bc-a2f6c78084c5)
- [Video: Here are four TED talks that I believe can improve your style and change your perspective on fashion. I've pinned the names in the comments for you to watch.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/442f6cc6-c9ba-4e20-a3cb-dd9e30cb3f3b)
- [Video: As a stylist, I totally disapprove of the idea that not everyone looks good in western attire. It's about finding your personal style, like Vidya Balan's "Feminine & Bold" aesthetic, and applying it to any type of clothing.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2cc0eff2-d6fa-464e-b2fe-2502762f6d83)
- [Video: An average person makes 35,000 decisions a day. I'll show you a simple method to decide your outfit by choosing adjectives that describe how you want to feel, making one of those decisions much easier.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/184f2d8d-7e28-412f-8bbf-616c446a0c84)
- [Video: Don't let a fashion emergency ruin your day at work. I share a list of essentials you should always keep in your work bag, from safety pins and a sewing kit to fashion tape and deodorant wipes.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/13da0134-4e4f-483c-827f-3f9819f63e2e)
- ![Are you taking care of your clothes the right way? This guide will help you understand the care labels on your garments so you can make them last longer.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/19a84fc2-0de2-412a-a9ef-94e28cf5f4cb)
- ![Some outfit inspiration from my recent trip to Kodaikanal. Here's a cozy look featuring a faux fur jacket and plaid pants, perfect for colder weather.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/800399b2-7dfe-4a0e-81cc-18b83aee2a4c)
- ![A few photos from my Diwali celebration. I'm wearing a simple off-white saree with a pop of color in my peach-colored blouse and a classic pearl necklace.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/69c56632-d086-4c68-89c4-5f7f54fef703)
- ![A photo dump from my convocation day. I'm wearing a locally sourced saree with a corset blouse that I made myself.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/450c61ab-9e00-4ad5-afdd-28c43f111871)
- ![Another look from my Kodaikanal trip. This outfit features a simple top from Tokyo Talkies and a faux fur jacket from Zudio.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5e62ef87-67af-4122-95be-4dfd50522441)
- ![A mirror selfie from my trip, showing a cozy winter outfit with a maroon high-neck top, faux fur jacket, and a beanie.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1027ce1c-68ac-43ea-9ba8-d98725c52e5d)
- ![A duplicate of my cozy winter outfit selfie. Layering is key for staying warm and stylish in colder weather.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fc5213a2-aa8e-47bd-9368-998be2174db7)
- ![A full-length shot of my Kodaikanal outfit in the beautiful pine forests.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a49cc494-409b-4b74-9c72-c6bd7d910526)
- ![A smiling shot from my trip. I love putting together practical and stylish outfits for travel.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0f39f95c-77c2-4672-9c3b-d9cbb6dacbee)
- ![A close-up of my Diwali look. The simple pearl necklace adds a touch of elegance.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/32392b55-15be-4923-9fd5-0c043148a825)
- ![A side view of my Diwali outfit, showing the simple and elegant drape of the saree.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a385a916-6fb2-4364-b64b-07d4a6033e3b)
- ![A happy, candid shot from my Diwali celebration.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/afeed869-386c-45c2-932b-9e2898e3e431)
- ![Another close-up of my festive look. The warm lights complement the colors of my outfit.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b4dda199-9fc2-4dc3-9b6b-cbcaafbedb1d)
- ![A duplicate of my Diwali portrait.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/23190cc7-5e51-48ad-ae2d-f41c26568a41)
- ![A duplicate of my full-length Diwali outfit.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/05471c93-7774-4f2b-8662-7661f0636fed)
- ![Another candid photo from Diwali.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7e9d3871-a928-4ce9-9af1-b3a4f534b006)
- ![A duplicate of the side view of my Diwali outfit.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/da9eb50d-661b-47c0-9916-180bdbd127df)
- ![A duplicate of my close-up Diwali portrait.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3cec735f-b1da-42b4-affe-e23aa083877d)
- ![A guide to understanding tumble dry and iron symbols on your clothing care labels. The dots on the iron symbol indicate the level of heat you can use.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ac29cef3-eaa4-4035-aac0-f169a6eac2c9)
- ![A survey found that only 26% of people could understand most care labels. This guide is here to help change that.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b808b906-90e5-487f-8a9a-3f8304de2064)
- ![86% of people confirmed that understanding care labels makes their life easier. That's why I'm sharing this guide with you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/47023b7a-19c1-4df6-bea6-c7a71e052c36)
- ![This chart explains the washing symbols on your care labels, from "do not wash" to the maximum temperature and spinning instructions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/20c3b3ed-ec98-4c69-a1f4-2216b80b15c5)
- ![This part of the guide covers symbols for handwashing, wringing, and machine washing. Knowing these will help you take better care of your delicate items.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f7e7df98-d964-44f5-a181-6f80ce8bc251)
- ![Another photo from my convocation, leaning against a wall with a fun, artistic background.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5e3cdc4e-23d6-4bbb-9bd0-317670c2c7c5)
- ![A full-length shot of my convocation outfit. The bright pink corset blouse adds a modern touch to the traditional saree.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c865c59e-2e41-4fa6-9419-c45cf0b1adb3)
- ![A candid side profile from my convocation photoshoot.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4d671c02-ec16-4bae-8af8-3d0a9f79bcc8)
- ![An epic laugh captured during my convocation photos. It's important to have fun with fashion.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a6447520-08ad-4cd1-8c3e-bda279b3acf6)
- ![A flowy, elegant shot of my convocation saree.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9d699f05-8d4f-4475-a72c-14a499c367f4)
- ![The number one style secret of celebrities is getting their garments tailored. A perfect fit can make even a simple t-shirt look amazing.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9783f2cf-de40-4494-a931-33f62fbf9663)
- ![Jennifer Aniston even gets her t-shirts altered to fit perfectly. Tailoring is a small investment that makes a huge difference.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/68ea7923-8a91-44dc-b3ea-41065e729104)
- ![A before and after example of how tailoring can transform a pair of shorts. The altered version fits the body's silhouette perfectly without any bulging pockets.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7b671590-e162-4d64-9e21-8a488e2318d6)
- ![Alterations are worth it and often inexpensive. Don't let a piece of clothing sit in your wardrobe just because it doesn't fit you well.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3a604373-0817-4538-8fa5-2c41d156d3f0)
- ![A reminder that hip dips are normal, natural, and beautiful. Don't let beauty standards make you feel insecure about your body.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e61dad87-2363-43a9-876f-412322786f51)
- ![If you're conscious about hip dips, try skirts with thick fabric and busy prints. These can help create a smoother silhouette.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ea4c12b3-4734-4589-9784-68db0252806e)
- ![This guide shows you which pencil skirts to wear if you are conscious about your hip dips.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bc222316-c9da-42d9-9b0c-3fc238d6f3a8)
- ![Skirts with details like ruching, embroidery, or frills are great for camouflaging hip dips and creating a flattering shape.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3af063ff-b946-46bc-8d5d-7feed50c7e01)
- ![Getting your trousers altered is a small change that can make you look from slouchy to smart. But what is the right length?](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f03b8cae-6f5b-4f89-8cd2-f80b355662fa)
- ![The ideal length for most trousers is ankle length, as shown here. This creates a clean line and works well with most footwear.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1115a4fc-b25d-404c-add9-8f285e67b2cd)
- ![The most common mistake people make while wearing pants is having them be too long and gather at the ankle.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7d1d1129-a519-47cc-825e-fba396e1745e)
- ![This image shows what to avoid: wearing trousers with gathers at the bottom or having them be too long when wearing flats.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/db40b872-79de-4e5f-b84b-a03def709bcc)
- ![This is the correct way to wear trousers: a clean ankle length that looks polished and intentional.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cac5c26b-4b9c-408a-ab44-f3c2f970927e)

## About My Style & Other Thoughts

Stop buying new clothes every week because you feel like you have nothing to wear. That feeling usually comes from a lack of personal style, not a lack of options. Whether I'm packing for a trip or styling a saree for a special day, the funda remains the same: choose pieces that feel like you, not just what is currently trending on your feed.

Finding my own style took five years of trial, error, and plenty of bad outfit days. I’ve been there—staring at a closet full of clothes and feeling completely lost. Now, my work is about helping you skip those years of frustration.

Style isn't about being a fashion icon; it’s about knowing which silhouette, shade, and fabric makes you feel confident the moment you step out. I believe in practical styling:

- **Curate, Don't Collect:** I advocate for a capsule wardrobe. In my own travel diaries, you'll see me reusing the same versatile pieces—like a faux fur jacket or a simple high-neck top—to create entirely different looks for colder climates.
- **Own Your Aesthetic:** Don't let anyone tell you that you should only stick to one type of clothing. Whether it is ethnic or western, if you understand the basics of fit, color, and silhouette, you can rock anything. It is about your personal vibe, not the garment.
- **Make Decisions Easier:** We make 35,000 decisions a day. Your outfit shouldn't be the one that stresses you out. I use a simple method: pick three adjectives (like 'confident', 'energetic', or 'comfortable') and dress for them. It turns dressing up into a quick, fun experiment.

When you stop chasing trends, you start building a closet that actually works for your lifestyle. If you are ready to stop overthinking and start feeling good in your own skin, let's chat.

## About Jaya Kumari

I'm Jaya, and I've spent years figuring out how to break the 'nothing to wear' cycle. I’m here to help you stop buying more and start styling better, whether that’s through a deep closet audit or a virtual transformation. Let’s make getting dressed the easiest part of your day.

[See all of Jaya Kumari's services](https://mytribe.in/stylistjayakumari)

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