--- title: "My Philosophy on Finding Love: Authentic Matchmaking in Mumbai" description: "Tired of dating apps? Discover my philosophy on finding love in Mumbai. We ditch the checklist for authentic matchmaking and singles events that help you build real, lasting connections." canonical: https://mytribe.in/paulomee/singles-events-mixers/my-philosophy-on-finding-love last_updated: 2026-01-10 --- # My Philosophy on Finding Love Tribe Verified · Helping Mumbai singles find genuine connections. By [Paulomee Mehra](https://mytribe.in/paulomee) · In-person events across the Mumbai Metropolitan Area · ₹2,500 per person per event (estimate) Part of [Singles Events & Mixers](https://mytribe.in/paulomee/singles-events-mixers). [View full gallery](https://mytribe.in/paulomee/singles-events-mixers/gallery) Finding a partner isn't about checking boxes on a profile. It is about opening your heart to a real connection in a space that feels just right. ## Photos and videos - ![This is the goal. A connection so real you can feel the joy. My approach is focused on helping you find someone who appreciates the real you, leading to beautiful moments like this.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/401fe9fd-2e82-4c16-82a1-c5aac398ba79) - [Video: This is my most important advice: be authentic. Your true self is what will attract a partner who loves you for who you are. It's the foundation of every lasting relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c6b05bd8-cca1-42f8-a84d-facc7d20de6a) - ![I always tell my clients to be open-minded. The right person might surprise you and not fit your exact checklist. Sometimes the most perfect match is the one you least expect.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5416468c-9177-4c61-9379-7b797e4ac5de) - ![A little food for thought. The journey to finding love starts with loving and working on yourself. When you are happy and whole, you attract the same energy.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/408af6a7-6db7-4378-ac8c-087520dd6638) - [Video: While I believe in face to face connection, technology can be a useful tool. My advice is to use dating apps to complement, not replace, real-world interactions like my singles events.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/00d0217b-0c1d-4ada-b2b1-9342bbc32154) ## About My Philosophy on Finding Love When you join one of my mixers, I ask you to leave the checklist at the door. Most of us are so busy ticking boxes—height, salary, hobbies—that we miss the actual person sitting right in front of us. My approach is simple: I facilitate spaces where you can have a real conversation, feel comfortable, and let chemistry happen naturally, without the pressure of a resume-style interview. I built this platform because I believe dating apps have turned human connection into a shopping experience, and that is not how you find a partner. My events, held at comfortable spots like Light House Cafe in South Mumbai, are designed to strip away the performance. Whether you are a young professional or a single parent, you need a space where you are seen for your values, not your profile picture. We start with a bit of vetting to ensure everyone is here for the right reasons, then focus on facilitation—using conversation cues or even a mini-tarot session to get the laughter flowing. It is not just about meeting people, it is about enjoying the process of being single and open to what comes next. If you are in Mumbai and looking for a way to meet folks who want the same 'real' connection you do, this is your tribe. ## About Paulomee Mehra Hi, I am Paulomee. I have always believed that love is not a spreadsheet or a quick swipe left. I create space for real people in Mumbai to meet, talk, and actually get to know each other without the pressure of perfect resumes. 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