--- title: "Fatherhood Guide: How to Be an Equal Parent | My Shishu" description: "Stop being just a helper. Learn how to be an equal, emotionally connected father with Dr. Abhishek Pasari. Practical advice for modern dads-to-be." canonical: https://mytribe.in/myshishu/fertility-pre-conception-coaching/for-dads-to-be-your-journey-as-an-equal-parent last_updated: 2025-08-31 --- # Fatherhood: Your Guide to Becoming an Equal Parent Tribe Verified · 20+ years guiding parents across India By [My Shishu](https://mytribe.in/myshishu) · Online sessions across India; In-person at Whitefield, Bengaluru · ₹2,499 Per Couple (Lifetime Access) (estimate) Part of [Fertility & Pre-Conception Coaching](https://mytribe.in/myshishu/fertility-pre-conception-coaching). [View full gallery](https://mytribe.in/myshishu/fertility-pre-conception-coaching/gallery) Fatherhood is not a supporting act. It is an equal partnership from the very first day. Learn how to be emotionally available, prepared, and present for your child and partner. ## Photos and videos - [Video: While ten in ten men become fathers, parenting is often seen as a mother's domain. I challenge this "kafi nainsafi" (great injustice) and call on fathers to fight for their role as an equal parent, from demanding fair paternity leave to sharing daily responsibilities.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1fba584-872c-4247-8688-0041dfa7c087) - [Video: When your partner announces she is pregnant, you are elated but may not feel any physical changes. This video addresses the emotional journey of a dad-to-be, validating your experience and offering ways to connect with your baby and support your partner. Remember, while the mother cares for the baby, the father creates the family.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1c212d7-f15c-4a39-a2e0-4498002cfcfe) - [Video: Men are often taught to be tough, not expressive. I guide fathers-to-be on how to break this mold, be emotionally available, and become a "cool dad" their child can confide in. Apart from breastfeeding, there are no excuses; every role can be shared.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0f3dd3e3-11c1-427d-8892-a5eceb52125d) - [Video: This is a thought-provoking question about societal norms. While we honor the immense contribution of mothers, it also opens a conversation about the role and recognition of fathers in a child's life and identity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5e22d998-1392-42e4-bc54-94ff402d526e) - ![To be an involved father, you must prepare. Here is a practical checklist of seven essential things you can do before the baby arrives, from scheduling paternity leave and learning lullabies to attending antenatal classes with your partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1a716f25-c257-4f36-b91c-9ce726a646f2) - [Video: Being a superhero dad is about being present and engaged. This video highlights five fathering essentials, including showing love and being available, which is the best investment you can make in your child's life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e46f73cf-ada9-4c07-b7c0-44a00d4dd412) ## About For Dads-To-Be: Your Journey as an Equal Parent We often talk about maternity leave, but what about the father's role? I challenge the myth that dads are just support providers. In my coaching, we tackle the hard stuff, like how to handle those few days of paternity leave and turn them into meaningful, active bonding time. You are not just an extra pair of hands; you are the co-architect of your child's first days. ### Beyond the 'Helper' Tag Too many fathers enter parenthood thinking their job is to help mom. This mindset is outdated. My mission is to shift that narrative. True fatherhood starts long before the birth. It is about emotional preparation, understanding the biological changes your partner is going through, and realizing that while you cannot breastfeed, you can do everything else. ### The Practical Checklist for Dads-to-Be Before the baby arrives, you need a plan. It is not just about painting a nursery. * **Paternity Leave Strategy:** Don't just take the days off; plan how you will own the household and baby care duties. * **Skill Building:** Learn to cook, soothe, and handle the night routine. These are not chores; they are your contribution to the family ecosystem. * **Emotional Availability:** Parenting is stressful. Your partner needs you to be the calm, strong base of the family, not another source of stress. ### Why Conscious Fatherhood Matters We integrate ancient Garbh Sanskar wisdom with modern science. When a father is involved during pregnancy—talking to the bump, attending antenatal classes, and supporting the mother's nutritional and emotional needs—the baby benefits. We are not just teaching you to hold a baby; we are teaching you to raise a conscious, healthy child. Whether you are in Bengaluru or joining our online sessions from across India, the goal is the same: becoming an equal, informed, and deeply connected parent. ## About My Shishu I am Dr. Abhishek Pasari. I have spent two decades seeing the confusion modern parenting brings, and I am here to cut through the noise. Parenting is not just a mother’s job; it is a shared journey where you must be fully present. 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