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title: "Pre-Marital Advisory & Coaching: Prepare for a Strong Marriage - mytribe"
description: "Build a strong foundation for your marriage with expert pre-marital advisory & coaching. Our personalized couples coaching helps you manage expectations, improve communication, and ensure marriage compatibility. Start your journey together with confidence. Hire an expert today!"
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# Pre-Marital Advisory & Coaching in Gurugram

By [Ritu Gaba](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances) · I help couples get ready for marriage by guiding them on real-life issues like communication, handling disagreements, checking profiles for safety, and understanding both modern and traditional concerns before they tie the knot.

## Locations

Available online globally; Visit office in Sector 47, Gurugram

### Travels to

- Available in Pune (Pune, Pune, Maharashtra, India)
- Available in Bengaluru (Bengaluru, Bengaluru, Karnataka, India)
- Available across Mumbai Metropolitan Region (Mumbai Metropolitan Region, Mumbai Metropolitan Area, Maharashtra)
- Available across Delhi NCR (Delhi NCR, Delhi, India)
- Available across Haryana (Haryana, Haryana, India)
- Available across Punjab (Punjab, Punjab, India)
- Available across India (India, India)
- Available for clients in Australia (Australia, Australia)
- Available for clients in Canada (Canada, Canada)
- Available for clients in United States (United States, United States)

### Visit at

- Visit office at Sector 47, Gurugram (consultations near Subhash Chowk, Medanta Hospital, South City 2, Omaxe Celebration Mall, Golf Course Extension Road, Millennium City Centre)

Also available online.

## Pricing guide (estimates)

These are indicative prices based on provider's past work. Enquire now to find out final quote.

### Single Session: Compatibility Audit & Verification

90-minute consultation covering astrological compatibility, profile authenticity checks, and expectation alignment.

Typically ₹5-10K per session (estimate)

#### Core Consultation
* **Duration:** Single session lasting approximately 60 to 90 minutes (Virtual or In-Person).
* **Profile Review:** Direct assessment of the partner's biodata to flag unrealistic expectations regarding modern vs traditional values.
* **Safety Audit:** Guidance on verifying employment details and family background to prevent matrimonial fraud.

#### Astrological Verification
* **Kundli Milan:** Detailed horoscope matching beyond basic Gun Milan.
* **Dosh Analysis:** Specific checks for Manglik Dosh and Nadi Dosh.
* **Remedial Guidance:** Practical 'Upay' (remedies) provided if compatibility scores are low but emotional investment is high.

#### Meeting Preparation
* **Etiquette Briefing:** Rapid coaching on choosing locations and conversation starters for the first meeting.
* **Digital Boundaries:** Guidance on mobile phone etiquette to ensure distraction-free interactions.

### Comprehensive Pre-Marital Coaching Program

3-5 session package including conflict resolution frameworks, legal rights awareness, and in-law dynamics management.

Typically ₹15-25K per package (estimate)

#### Deep-Dive Coaching
* **Structure:** Series of 3 to 5 personalized sessions (mix of individual and joint couple sessions).
* **Baggage Handling:** Confidential discussions addressing past trauma, insecurities, and trust issues to prevent impact on the new marriage.
* **Conflict Resolution:** Frameworks for respectful disagreements and handling doubt or possessiveness.

#### Family & Social Dynamics
* **In-Law Management:** Strategies for navigating joint family vs nuclear setups and balancing parental time.
* **Cultural Context:** Explanations of specific wedding rituals and their significance to ensure mutual understanding.

#### Legal & Practical Awareness
* **Legal Rights:** Overview of the Special Marriage Act vs Hindu Marriage Act and rights regarding property/finance.
* **Remarriage Counseling:** Specialized guidance for second marriages focusing on blending families and financial security.
* **Communication Drills:** Exercises designed for long-distance couples to maintain connection.

## About Pre-Marital Advisory & Coaching

### Why I Do What I Do

Main Ritu hoon, and honestly, I see so many couples stepping into marriage with confusion, excitement, and sometimes unrealistic hopes. I’m here to make the start smoother. I believe relationships need warmth and honesty, not just rituals or fancy photos.

### What My Pre-Marital Coaching Covers

- Practical sessions, full confidentiality, and everything tailored to you
- We dig into managing expectations - nobody’s perfect, and it’s totally normal to disagree sometimes
- I help you work out what really matters for you in a life partner, beyond looks or status, focusing on values, nature, and goals

### Straight Talk on Communication and Disagreements

- I guide couples on open, honest baatein (talks), because clear communication keeps you connected
- Long-distance? No stress, I share easy tips to keep love alive
- Modern etiquette covered too, like how to handle social media together
- Respect is non-negotiable. I coach on how to handle fights calmly, without sharp words or unnecessary shak (doubt)
- Building trust, not possessiveness

### Tradition Meets Today

- If Kundli matching guidance or Nadi Dosh worries you, I explain these simply
- I offer practical solutions and upaay (remedies) if needed - not just pointing out problems

### Keeping It Real & Safe

- I’ll show you how to check matrimonial profiles, spot red flags, and cross-check info so you feel safe
- Need to know legal aspects of marriage in India, especially for second-time couples? I break it down in plain language

### You Search, I Support

I’ve worked with NRIs, professionals, and families from all walks of life. Talash aapki, sahayata meri (Your search, my help). I’m not here to judge, just to guide and support you as you take this step.

## Highlights

Browse through Ritu Gaba's best work.

### [Featured](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/featured)

- [Video: This video captures the common fears and anxieties a girl feels when stepping into a new life after her shaadi. I help couples navigate these feelings, from worries about a new house and responsibilities to finding the same love and acceptance, ensuring the foundation of their rishta is strong and supportive.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/08715f59-0177-467b-8312-3a7a8222686d)
- [Video: Namaskar, main hoon Ritu Gaba. In this video, I talk about a common problem: unrealistic expectations in a relationship. I explain how expecting your partner to read your mind or for there to be no disagreements can harm your connection, and I offer advice on moving towards a more mature, reality-based partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/353e9823-b42c-46ab-be73-0febca42243b)
- [Video: The online world is great for finding a life partner, but safety comes first. I share essential tips for anyone using matrimonial sites, covering what information to not share initially, the importance of meeting in public places, and when to involve your families to prevent fraud.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/85567762-d868-4f1b-acbf-ac3570cab7d3)
- [Video: Are you worried about Nadi Dosh in your kundli matching? I break down this complex astrological concept in simple terms. I explain the three types of nadis, the potential issues of a dosh, and also provide a practical upaay for couples who are already married with this condition.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/db72bf7e-9237-48d2-bc32-4faca806e248)
- [Video: A second marriage is a chance for a new beginning, and it's important to approach it with care and honesty. I provide practical tips for those considering remarriage, focusing on discussing past experiences, managing expectations, and ensuring your divorce is finalized before moving forward.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4a7b8ea5-6a78-4d6b-8c83-ecc5b56d3ca2)
- [Video: The first meeting for a marriage proposal is a crucial step. I offer simple, practical advice on how to make it successful, from choosing a quiet public place and listening carefully to avoiding showing off and using your mobile too much.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5728ca6c-a13b-4ba7-a467-62ded924ce90)
- ![Building a healthy and happy relationship is the goal for every couple. This image represents the warmth, connection, and joy that I help couples cultivate through open communication and mutual understanding.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fe140ffd-4635-4677-a4be-57a7a8907edb)

### [Expectations vs. Reality: The Art of Communication](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/expectations-vs-reality-the-art-of-communication)

- [Video: Namaskar, I often see couples struggle with unrealistic expectations. This video explains what they are, such as wanting your partner to value only you or assuming there will never be fights, and I guide you on how to embrace a more realistic and mature relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b7610842-5109-4d1e-965f-adcaa352af10)
- [Video: When you marry someone, you marry their whole story, including their past traumas and insecurities. I explain the importance of accepting your partner's weaknesses along with their strengths to build a truly strong and lasting bond.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/df2579a7-ba38-465d-b8a9-b7f4daa4eba1)
- [Video: Fights between couples are normal, but how you fight matters. Here are my tips for handling disagreements constructively, like avoiding bringing up old resolved issues, not comparing your partner to others, and never targeting their known weaknesses.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d6399b26-ad62-4bb0-b01b-6c6ddd4fb6a6)
- [Video: Does shak, or doubt, trouble your relationship? I discuss how this habit can become a big problem and share practical solutions. Learning to share your feelings openly and reassuring your partner can help overcome possessiveness and build real trust.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/185b1d34-4791-452f-bf63-7465ed94d24b)
- [Video: Being over-possessive is different from being caring, and it can damage your relationship. I explain the signs of over-possessiveness, like checking your partner's phone or trying to control them, and advise on how to step back and build a healthier dynamic.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6a928e54-9a08-4699-9ecd-3ca3e6700c64)
- [Video: It's a common issue when you don't like your spouse's friends. In this video, I guide you on how to discuss this topic openly with your partner without being demanding, focusing on patience and clear communication to resolve the conflict.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a467ac55-47cb-4567-b0a1-0795eda8733f)
- [Video: Giving each other space is vital for a healthy married life. Constant interference can lead to fights, so I advise couples to allow each other freedom and trust, as trying to control your partner often pushes them away.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e057f367-6261-4799-bec5-ccdfe3f32296)
- [Video: Showing off to a potential partner can create false expectations that lead to trouble after marriage. I advise being your authentic self during meetings, as a relationship built on reality is one that will be smooth and strong.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e6e994e5-b91f-430a-b4fc-23bf7ea7d2c3)
- [Video: The 10-minute rule is a simple yet powerful tool for every married couple. I explain how dedicating just ten minutes a day to talk only about your relationship, without discussing kids or household chores, can significantly strengthen your connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/86f9f88b-2660-46e9-afa9-7e74c914ddbe)
- [Video: The single biggest rule in any marriage is respect. In this video, I emphasize why using hurtful words during a fight can cause deep damage and advise couples to discuss problems calmly instead of making spiteful comments.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a2ba4ded-cef1-4621-810f-59b3f5a5c85c)
- ![Disagreements are a part of any relationship, and it's healthy to not be afraid of them. The key is to handle them with respect, which is a cornerstone of the communication coaching I provide to couples.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4ca0fcea-6715-44eb-8784-d8a923fdf0ec)
- ![Open and honest communication is the foundation of a lasting partnership. I help couples create a safe space where they can share their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment, leading to a deeper connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f5b28f59-5d2c-4f31-ba45-603efe645f68)
- ![A meaningful emotional connection is what keeps a relationship alive. My sessions focus on helping you and your partner understand each other on a deeper level, ensuring you feel seen, heard, and valued.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/42a2b200-dbb1-4b23-bcfb-ca9e564f3fba)
- [Video: A long-term Harvard study proved that happiness comes from strong relationships, not money or fame. I discuss the findings of this survey and how nurturing your connections is the most important investment you can make in your life.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/dc967bc0-d7d5-47db-bf04-756e10ec2e2f)
- [Video: Caring for your partner's health is as important as loving them. I share tips on how to support your partner, especially if they don't share their health problems openly, by being gentle, observant, and proactive in their care.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/67fb4525-483d-406e-9b02-3e8354bd9c2a)
- [Video: For married couples, or those about to be, small things make a big difference. I share tips like appreciating your partner, respecting them, helping with their work, and accepting changes in each other to maintain a happy and loving bond.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4036c048-2f43-4df6-8666-6eefda714508)
- [Video: Balancing a demanding career and a loving relationship is a modern challenge. I offer practical tips like sharing your day, making time for calls, and not taking work stress out on your partner to ensure both aspects of your life thrive.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f4318d37-6c1a-4dfc-841f-a682d2adbe1c)
- [Video: For long-distance couples, maintaining love and attachment requires effort. I provide simple tips like regular video calls, sending surprise gifts, and sharing daily photos to keep your connection strong despite the distance.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c5410e3c-9325-44e5-b1e8-4fb0894d5f2a)
- [Video: In the age of social media, it's important to be mindful of what you share about your partner. I advise on getting their consent before posting photos or videos and writing captions that make them feel respected and loved, not embarrassed.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f2a66c06-6db0-4f72-b9ca-74dfb4c7569a)

### [The Search: Finding Your Perfect Match](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/the-search-finding-your-perfect-match)

- [Video: Shortlisting profiles for marriage is the first important step. I share tips on what to look for, such as shared hobbies and priorities, and why it's important to meet in person before rejecting a profile based on just a photo.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d1b57355-fd26-4812-83a9-8ccbc9497d8c)
- [Video: Searching for a life partner online is common, but safety is paramount. I provide crucial tips like not sharing personal financial details early on, always meeting in a public place, and involving families sooner rather than later to avoid fraud.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e41dcdb2-e032-44f5-83b1-cd18950dcfa5)
- [Video: Your first meeting for a marriage proposal sets the tone for everything. I offer practical advice for this important step, including choosing a quiet public venue, being a good listener, and presenting your true self without showing off.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9b755ba5-a049-480a-ae16-5c0e43e0ece4)
- [Video: What do Indians prioritize when finalizing a marriage? I discuss a survey that reveals most people value understanding and compatibility above looks, caste, or income. This helps you focus on what truly builds a lasting relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1fb9d436-811f-4c24-a817-368649da1639)
- [Video: When you are seriously dating someone with marriage in mind, observe how they treat others. This video explains why their behavior towards waiters, drivers, or family is a true indicator of their character and how they might treat you in the future.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2ccf5af1-0de1-4e56-bfca-64cfa84fb873)
- [Video: If you are looking to finalize a life partner, there are key qualities to look for. I share tips on identifying red flags like a dominating or narrow-minded nature and emphasize finding someone who prioritizes you and respects your family.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/61a311b1-0c06-406e-867c-00c9831dc3c8)
- [Video: This clip shares a powerful insight: real love is for a person's behavior and thought process, not just outer beauty. I guide my clients to look for these deeper qualities that sustain a relationship long after the initial attraction fades.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/aa136bfa-b678-4afa-bead-5080cae507ed)
- [Video: A good partner is one who supports your personal growth. I explain why a relationship where both individuals grow together is healthy and lasting, and how a partner who holds you back is not the right choice for the long term.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d70a8d09-b2e8-4d7c-a3fc-cc1b49a3064f)
- ![This image highlights the importance of pre-screening a matrimonial profile for a safe search. I teach my clients how to analyze profiles, verify information, and spot potential red flags before they invest their time and emotions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7b332dc0-2a33-4b8f-8bf9-01861993b00d)
- ![When screening matrimonial profiles, it's crucial to consider your priorities. I help you clarify what you are looking for, whether it's a well-settled professional or someone with specific values, so you can make decisions with confidence.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cfe459f7-602f-4297-a4d7-c3f219606690)
- ![Before accepting or rejecting a profile, think about the person's individual achievements and stability. My coaching helps you assess these practical aspects to ensure you and your potential partner are on a similar page professionally and financially.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/49605b0b-b35b-4c38-8c0c-e6611b640a31)
- ![Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will make. This image series introduces the key aspects I help my clients consider, moving beyond the superficial to find a truly compatible match.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b2150fdb-8aaf-4b22-9e88-f7eed2b3c5a5)
- ![Having similar interests can be a wonderful part of a relationship, but shared values are even more important. I guide you in finding a potential partner whose life goals and core beliefs align with yours for long-term happiness.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2b135ce4-ede4-4968-b190-2e5ba77755aa)
- ![A partner's intellect and how they think is a crucial factor for compatibility. My process encourages you to look beyond looks and focus on finding someone whose mind and conversation you genuinely connect with.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cfd2f0dd-d6cd-4e8f-a988-ace2930df8cb)
- ![A person's nature (svabhav) is the foundation of their personality. I help you understand how to look for kindness, patience, and a positive nature in a potential partner, as these qualities are essential for a happy home.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/037adb96-45a4-477a-a934-d38bdbfc8e04)
- ![Do your life goals align? It's a critical question. I coach couples to have open conversations about their personal and professional aspirations to ensure they are building a future that supports both of their dreams.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a5929581-5689-454d-9e9e-0ede2c93146a)
- ![Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, is a sign of a great life partner. In my sessions, we discuss how to spot empathy and why it's a non-negotiable quality for a supportive relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7d40d947-f1c5-430d-b2f4-25a475152f49)
- ![In an arranged marriage, the time after engagement is precious. This series of tips is designed to help you build a strong relationship before the wedding, turning a formal arrangement into a genuine connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f61f41bf-9d2b-4070-a1e6-ef8ae853b480)
- ![Getting to know each other requires effort from both sides. I encourage couples to be proactive in this phase, suggesting activities and conversation starters that help you discover each other's personalities, likes, and dislikes.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2baaa6fd-17af-4d86-95b2-7bbfaf3e11ca)
- ![Wedding planning can be all-consuming, but it's important to discuss other things too. I advise couples to talk about their dreams, fears, and daily lives to build a foundation that goes beyond the big day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e78b279f-2800-4dcd-abf5-4401f6ba23ab)
- ![Talking about the past can be sensitive, but it's necessary for building trust. I provide a framework for how to have these conversations honestly and respectfully, ensuring you both feel safe and understood.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f43a3ec9-d4b2-421f-a38c-e6c61dee27c5)
- ![Honesty is the best policy, especially when starting a life together. I stress the importance of being truthful about everything, from your habits to your expectations, to prevent future misunderstandings.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/367d7876-7e6a-4369-8490-4a7d9e54f964)
- ![Discussing finances before marriage is not rude, it's responsible. I guide couples on how to have this important conversation about money habits, financial goals, and expectations to ensure you are on the same page.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0af12bdf-e004-4b46-887b-8008db2b5f6b)
- [Video: Are you finding that your search for a partner isn't leading to finalization? I discuss common reasons this happens, from comparing new people to an ex-partner to having an overly strict checklist for horoscopes or looks, and offer solutions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/86e30f2f-c11b-46ee-b10a-47d2da0c4ce3)
- [Video: If you've found your life partner but are struggling to convince your family, these tips can help. I explain how to approach the conversation with patience, use positive examples of love marriages, and involve a respected family member to support you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a9f68ae8-4c83-40e0-b0a8-7b45e0f0c29f)

### [Tradition Meets Today: Astrology & Rituals Explained](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/tradition-meets-today-astrology-rituals-explained)

- [Video: Many people hear about Nadi Dosh during horoscope matching and get worried. In this video, I explain what it is, the three types of nadis, and why it's given so much importance in kundli milan for a happy married life and progeny.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a8649a94-8163-4c64-8da4-a5c8f01e68ef)
- [Video: What does it mean to be Manglik? I explain the concept of Mangal Dosh based on planetary positions in a horoscope. I also discuss its potential impact on married life and why a Manglik-to-Manglik match is traditionally considered ideal.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a3496d04-7052-40f3-b077-e4fa1bcf2982)
- [Video: Are you worried about Nadi Dosh in your kundli matching? I break down this complex astrological concept in simple terms. I explain the three types of nadis, the potential issues of a dosh, and also provide a practical upaay for couples who are already married with this condition.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/db72bf7e-9237-48d2-bc32-4faca806e248)
- ![This is a simple and powerful 'upaay' or remedy using supari (betel nut) for those who wish to get married soon. I believe in offering practical solutions, and this traditional practice is one of many I share with my clients.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6fd0a79a-5dc4-4cff-a4d9-129ffa3a59e3)
- [Video: Here is another simple 'upaay' for those seeking to get married soon. I explain the Thursday ritual of feeding a cow with turmeric-laced dough balls, jaggery, and chana dal, a practice believed to bring positive results.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6bb029b3-bea1-4fc9-9af2-fd0c027e614e)
- [Video: For men who are going to meet a potential bride, here is a small traditional tip. I advise eating a little bit of gud (jaggery) before leaving the house, as it is considered auspicious and beneficial for the meeting.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1620d4eb-6bc6-4b86-be16-081048b65fd4)
- [Video: This video is for females facing problems in marriage finalization. I share a powerful mantra and a simple ritual involving coconuts and a Shiva lingam, dedicated to helping overcome obstacles in your search for a life partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/00dd178c-49d9-4557-bcb4-919985826bfc)
- [Video: During Navratri, the Argala Stotram from the Durga Saptashati is a powerful prayer. I recommend this path (recitation) for anyone who is looking to get married soon, as it is believed to create positive yog (chances) for marriage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/287538be-b52a-49e1-8b0d-6e29ebc1d49b)
- [Video: For those facing persistent delays in marriage, I explain the significance of worshipping Maa Katyayani, the sixth form of Maa Durga. I share the powerful mantra and the proper vidhi (method) to perform this puja for positive results.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ab66f8b3-d648-4a51-af56-60069fc7b9fb)
- [Video: Why does a bride throw rice behind her during the vidaai ceremony? I explain the beautiful meaning behind this rasm (ritual). It is a way for her to pray for the prosperity of her parents' home and thank them for everything.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/22905a11-bb2c-4cff-a141-cf1ac2e69676)
- [Video: The 'Kaleerein' worn by a bride have a fascinating history beyond the modern ritual. I share the original purpose of these ornaments, which were filled with edible items to sustain the bride on her long journey to her new home.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4f388618-6db0-4a1a-adb1-7851ffe30027)
- [Video: The Haldi ceremony is more than just a fun pre-wedding ritual. I explain its significance, from being a symbol of good fortune and invoking Lord Vishnu's blessings to its role as a natural cosmetic for a bridal glow.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6e66a2e5-8683-49b1-8334-be5a5b4bfdda)
- [Video: The 'ribbon cutting' ceremony at a wedding has a dramatic origin story. I explain its real name, 'Toran Maran', and the tale of a clever prince who defeated a demon disguised as a parrot, a ritual that now symbolizes warding off evil.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0116391c-3a56-4189-affb-eba6d1d831c9)
- [Video: Have you ever wondered why many Hindu marriages are performed at night, under the 'taaron ki chaanv'? I explain the scientific and symbolic reasons, from the stabilizing influence of the Dhruv Tara (Pole Star) to the peaceful energy of the night.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fc687f13-7e66-4159-96af-b5a165a9de63)
- [Video: The four pillars of a wedding mandap hold deep symbolic meaning. I explain how they represent Brahma, Vishnu, and Shiva, with the fourth pillar symbolizing the ancestors of the bride and groom, whose blessings are sought for the new beginning.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b9b25b7f-9e3f-4edc-b33a-9cb856353f88)
- [Video: In some communities, the groom's mother does not attend the wedding. I explain the historical origins of this custom, which began during the Mughal era as a practical measure to safeguard the home and prepare for the bride's welcome.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c3b2b8ce-d486-4db8-8243-135d32d9d3b9)
- [Video: Basant Panchami is considered a very auspicious day for marriages. I explain the reasons why, from its connection to the goddess of knowledge, Maa Saraswati, to it being the day of Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati's 'tilakotsav'.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/58edb130-3c93-4e09-85bf-c33721d5cf26)
- [Video: Akshay Tritiya is known as a 'sarvasiddh muhurat', a day so auspicious you don't need to consult an astrologer. I explain the multiple reasons for its significance, including the planetary alignment and its connection to Lord Parshuram and the river Ganga.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8644bbbb-e592-4c4f-8237-663493a4fbf6)
- [Video: Bhadalya Navami is another 'abujh muhurat' or self-proven auspicious day for weddings. I explain its importance as the last auspicious day before Lord Vishnu goes into a four-month yog nidra, making it a crucial date for any pending ceremonies.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a78167bf-091b-4a84-8050-c4dabc774e12)
- [Video: There are four special days in the Hindu calendar known as 'abujh muhurat', when you can plan any auspicious work without consulting a pandit. I list these four dates: Basant Panchami, Akshay Tritiya, Bhadalya Navami, and Devuthani Ekadashi.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c060a777-4a86-417d-8497-c5407a3f72a0)
- [Video: The week before Holi, known as Holashtak, is considered inauspicious for marriages or new beginnings. I explain the astrological reasons behind this, as the planets are in an aggressive state, and the mythological connection to the suffering of Bhakt Prahlad.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6923490a-fd15-4bbe-ae49-9b9e892abc3d)
- ![Astrology can offer interesting insights into compatibility. This series of images explores the best zodiac matches for an Aries woman, helping you understand the dynamics between different sun signs.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c6e2cb69-9b72-49ea-bf72-e35c3a0fd91a)
- ![An Aries-Aries match can be powerful, as they have a natural appreciation for each other's energy and drive. I use astrology as one of many tools to explore the potential dynamics between partners.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f9f2e64a-6685-46e8-a2fd-8264b7b1f2d6)
- ![The combination of Aries and Leo is often a strong one. An assertive Aries woman can find a great partner in a Leo man who respects her independence and intelligence, creating a dynamic and respectful relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3df7c3c2-16da-4851-8dc9-ef31475550a0)
- ![The attraction between an Aries woman and a Sagittarius man is often immediate and powerful. Their shared love for adventure and honesty can make for a very exciting and compatible pairing.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/086273bb-2497-4316-8d05-ffed6ab4f050)
- ![The natural charm of a Gemini man can be very attractive to an Aries woman. This pairing often results in a fun-loving and intellectually stimulating relationship, which I help clients explore.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f7f4f1c7-733b-4209-8fde-4195a7922299)
- ![An Aquarius man often admires the strength of an Aries woman, while she is drawn to his intelligence. This can be a wonderful match built on mutual respect for each other's unique qualities.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/05d567c0-7970-455f-a7b9-194300e089b8)

### [Legal Know-How: Court Marriage & Divorce](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/legal-know-how-court-marriage-divorce)

- [Video: The Supreme Court has made an important change regarding the 'cooling-off period' in mutual divorces. I explain the new ruling under Article 142 and what it means for couples who wish to separate amicably without the mandatory six-month wait.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e709bd90-c43e-459f-a36d-6bef61124d4a)
- [Video: 'Silver Divorce' or 'Grey Divorce' refers to separation among couples over 50. I discuss this growing trend in India, the reasons behind it, and the practical complications that can arise, such as the division of property and investments.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6d9f95a6-401d-4e80-9e32-1882d6e37101)
- [Video: For court marriages, there is a rule that you cannot file for divorce until one year of marriage is complete. I explain this legal provision and the rare exceptions for cases of 'extraordinary suffering', as well as the consequences of misleading the court.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/474f7927-289b-469a-bfbf-10fe3abced5f)
- [Video: What are the common mistakes that lead to breakups or divorces? I discuss habits that women often dislike in their male partners, such as dishonesty, lack of attention, or flirting with others, which can unfortunately lead to the end of a relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/30cca4aa-2d7d-4725-83b1-c46dea0a5bac)
- [Video: Court marriages are performed under the Special Marriage Act, 1954. I provide key information about this process, including the minimum age for girls and boys, the 30-day notice period, and the requirement of three witnesses.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/078d077e-85c2-4528-ba1c-d92d1516929e)
- [Video: If you are planning a court marriage, having the right documents is essential. I list all the important documents you'll need, from age and residence proof to divorce decrees or death certificates for second marriages, to ensure a smooth process.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/91439179-e673-43fe-b5b9-975b3f5fba19)

### [More Food for Thought](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances/pre-marital-advisory-coaching/more-food-for-thought)

- [Video: This powerful clip from Jaya Kishori challenges the societal double standard of marrying off a 'samajhdaar' (sensible) girl to an irresponsible boy, hoping she will 'fix' him. It's a crucial point that a husband should also be mature and responsible.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ad188c69-bbc3-4321-9385-f4638a7229fe)
- [Video: A recent survey shows that most people want to take their time to ensure compatibility before marriage. I discuss these findings and ask for your opinion on how much time is enough to truly know someone before making a lifelong commitment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/03bb6c2c-34c3-40dd-80c5-905f3c0deb27)
- [Video: During the marriage season, do you feel pressure from your family to get married quickly? I talk about a survey from a dating app that confirms this is a common experience for many prospective brides and grooms.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1bfde8ee-f40f-47e7-873c-da80d0b81726)
- [Video: Inter-caste marriages are common today, and they require mutual respect for each other's family rituals. I emphasize that this is a responsibility for both the husband and the wife to ensure all festivals and traditions are celebrated together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0ece51cd-6b30-4e01-b67a-93c88256255f)
- [Video: For newly-wed couples, especially in an arranged marriage, open communication is key. I offer advice on giving each other space, showing respect in public, and discussing your feelings openly to ensure your life together starts smoothly.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/97e9696b-fc75-44d5-8d59-c626b18dc274)
- ![While your partner is your priority, it's healthy to maintain your own interests and friendships. I encourage couples to support each other in having a life outside the relationship, as it brings more richness and happiness into it.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/525e131b-5ba7-4b82-bfff-18bda4ad13ce)
- ![A person's nature (svabhav) is the foundation of their personality. I help you understand how to look for kindness, patience, and a positive nature in a potential partner, as these qualities are essential for a happy home.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/037adb96-45a4-477a-a934-d38bdbfc8e04)

## Meet your expert

[Ritu Gaba](https://mytribe.in/marriagealliances)

### My story

Namaskar, hum hain Marriage Alliances. Dekha hai zindagi mein kitna paisa ho, badi job ho, par agar rishtey theek nahi toh sab bekaar lagta hai. Ek Harvard survey bhi keh gaya, khushi ka raaz hai acchi relationships. Humne socha, bas, logo ko yahi clarity deni hai. Sirf biodata nahi milate, Supreme Court ke naye orders samjhate hain, Manglik ya Nadi Dosh bhi explain karte hain. Pehli shaadi ho ya doosra chance, hum saath hain. All the best.

### My work

- **Personalised Matchmaking for All**: Hum first marriage, second marriage, divorcee, widow sabke liye trusted matchmaking karte hain - Hindu, Sikh, Jain, Christian, NRI, elite sab included.
- **Horoscope & Manglik Dosh Guidance**: Sirf profile nahi, kundli milan, Nadi Dosh, Manglik Dosh sab check karte hain, remedies bhi batate hain.
- **Practical Online Dating Safety Tips**: Online milne ki duniya mein safe rehna zaroori hai, toh hum guide karte hain kya karna, kya poochna.
- **Relationship Reality Check**: Shaadi sirf function nahi, hum sikhate hain expectations, fights kaise handle karein, partner ki care kaise karein.

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