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title: "Pre-Marital Counseling for Strong Marriage Preparation - mytribe"
description: "Invest in your future with expert pre-marital counseling. Build a strong foundation for a lasting partnership by improving communication and ensuring emotional compatibility before you say 'I do'. Start your journey to a happy marriage with confidence. Book a session today!"
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last_updated: 2025-09-21
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# Pre-Marital Coaching & Counseling in Delhi Ncr

By [Make My Lagan](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan) · We help couples and families talk openly about values, money, communication, and expectations before marriage so everyone is clear and ready for real life together.

## Locations

Available online and across Delhi NCR; Visit offices in South Extension II & Rajouri Garden

### Visit at

- Office at South Extension II, New Delhi (Consultations near Defence Colony, Lajpat Nagar, INA Metro Station, Hauz Khas, Greater Kailash, Green Park)
- Office at Rajouri Garden, New Delhi (Consultations near Punjabi Bagh, Tagore Garden, Kirti Nagar, Subhash Nagar, Paschim Vihar, Moti Nagar)
- Services across Delhi NCR (National Capital Region, National Capital Region)

Also available online.

## Pricing guide (estimates)

These are indicative prices based on provider's past work. Enquire now to find out final quote.

### Diagnostic Compatibility Session

A single 90-minute private audit with a senior expert to identify relationship red flags, financial alignment, and lifestyle non-negotiables.

Typically ₹5,500-8,500 Per Session (90 Mins) (estimate)

#### Session Logistics
* **Duration:** 90 minutes of dedicated face-to-face or video consultation.
* **Expertise:** Conducted by a Senior Relationship Expert or Principal Consultant.
* **Setting:** Private, sound-proofed consultation suite in South Extension or Rajouri Garden.

#### Assessment Scope
* **Temperament Audit:** Analysis of emotional patterns and conflict resolution styles beyond the resume.
* **Boundary Mapping:** Defining hard limits regarding finances, living with in-laws, and career ambitions.
* **Moderated Q&A:** A mediated space to discuss sensitive topics like debt, past relationships, and health history.

#### Deliverables
* **Concierge Service:** Gourmet coffee, tea, and refreshments served during the session.
* **Report:** A summarized email highlighting compatibility strengths and areas requiring work.

### Comprehensive Pre-Marital Program

A 6-week, 8-session curriculum covering financial transparency, conflict resolution protocols, detailed astrology, and dedicated parental mediation.

Typically ₹45-65K Per Couple (Full Package) (estimate)

#### Program Structure (8 Sessions)
* **Couple Sessions (6):** Deep dives into financial compatibility (debt/assets), intimacy expectations, and conflict resolution protocols.
* **Parental Courtship (1):** Mediation between both sets of parents to align expectations on rituals and family integration.
* **Individual Sessions (1 Split):** Separate 45-minute sessions for the bride and groom to address personal anxieties.

#### Specialized Analysis
* **Astrological Consulting:** Detailed "Mindset Matching" session with an in-house astrologer focusing on planetary influences on behavior.
* **Psychometric Profiling:** Assessment tools to identify attachment styles (Anxious vs. Avoidant) and management strategies.

#### Support & Logistics
* **Priority Support:** Direct access to the Relationship Manager for guidance during the courtship period.
* **Venue Access:** Use of conference rooms for neutral-ground family discussions (up to 4 hours).
* **Hospitality:** Full beverage service and high-tea snacks provided during in-person sessions.

## About Pre-Marital Coaching & Counseling

### Why Couples Come to Us

Most people tell us, "hum thak gaye hain" (we are tired) from endless swiping and surface-level chats. Finding a partner starts to feel like another job, not a journey. We’ve seen how burnout and confusion creep in before the wedding even happens.

### What We Actually Do

I believe shaadi (marriage) is much more than just a big day. It's a lifetime ka commitment (commitment for a lifetime), and honestly, a lot of the issues we see later could have been talked about earlier. My approach isn’t for “troubled” couples only. Yeh ek proactive kaam hai (This is a proactive thing) – for anyone who wants a strong foundation after the wedding lights go out.

### How We Help

- Move past biodata and filters - focus on the big stuff.
- Mindset matching: We try to align your values and life goals, not just your horoscopes.
- Communication skills for couples: Learn how to really listen, talk, disagree, and still get closer.
- Financial compatibility: Salary is just one thing. We talk about spending, saving, and what money means to each of you.
- Family involvement in Indian marriages: In our culture, it’s do parivaaron ka milna (two families coming together). We help with aapsi samajh (mutual understanding) between families.
- Emotional readiness for marriage: We talk about your fears, hopes, and what you’re carrying with you.

### What Makes Us Different

We listen, not just match. Pehle khud ko samjho, phir doosre ko (First, understand yourself, then the other person). I believe you become the right partner before you find one. My aim is that you walk into marriage clear, confident, and truly ready.

## Highlights

Browse through Make My Lagan's best work.

### [Featured](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/featured)

- [Video: Most people tell us, "hum thak gaye hain" from endless swiping. We understand this emotional burnout. Our approach isn't about giving you more profiles; it's about providing clarity and connecting you with someone who is truly relevant to your life, values, and pace.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/35be3141-380f-4d4f-81f8-a02e7dad0585)
- [Video: I often ask men what they will bring to a marriage, and the question is met with silence. A partnership is a two way street. We guide you to shift the focus from finding the perfect person to becoming the right partner, fostering the self awareness needed for a lasting bond.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b9beab39-2f78-4981-b6a5-1d1f203599ca)
- ![The modern arranged marriage is not a rushed decision. It is a conscious choice made by two people who are prepared to build a future together. We facilitate this journey of preparation and clarity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c2791282-3695-4096-bacf-21a816941d46)
- [Video: Relationships often break not from a lack of love, but a lack of patience and understanding. We believe in building the emotional foundation that helps you support each other through life's pressures, turning challenges into shared strength.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/552f937b-b037-4bd6-b3e2-05528f9f5b2e)
- ![We are Sachin and Shallu Chawla, the founders of Make My Lagan. Our own 16 year marriage is the foundation of our work. We built this service on the belief that a meaningful relationship is the greatest asset in life, and we are here to guide you on your journey.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c98db635-3e54-4100-8917-e1e2ab50d71e)
- [Video: In our culture, a marriage is a union of two families. We advise parents to build their own understanding and rapport during the courtship period. This creates a strong support system that can guide the couple through any challenge.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0612cb8f-8680-4c85-903a-0ed939d6eade)
- ![Many issues that surface after the wedding could have been discussed before. Pre marital counseling is a proactive step, like wedding planning for your relationship, to ensure you and your partner start your life together on a foundation of clarity and alignment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/597eb579-a2e0-4016-a189-8413332562fc)
- [Video: In a world of trial and error dating, the heart often longs for something more sincere. We move away from the swiping game to focus on creating connections built on clear intentions and a shared vision for a timeless relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/47647c0c-3823-4aad-9f01-d405f044a880)

### [Our Philosophy: Beyond the Biodata](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/our-philosophy-beyond-the-biodata)

- [Video: We start with a simple but powerful question: If someone exactly like you came to your door, would you marry them? True readiness for a relationship begins with self awareness and becoming the partner you hope to find.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0e61f7ec-6868-4917-8f2d-e1d6ba76556e)
- [Video: Before we ask what you're looking for in a match, we ask you to look within. Understanding your own patterns, strengths, and areas for growth is the first step to building a healthy, lasting partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ee80d938-0139-44ec-9589-dd44d1101f39)
- ![This is the core of our philosophy. The journey to a successful marriage is as much about personal growth as it is about finding the right person. We guide you in becoming a partner who is ready for a lifelong commitment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ae6e9a6e-f464-444d-80f4-f67126fce42a)
- [Video: Our process is built on three key questions: Who are you? What are your expectations? And what are your non negotiables? Answering these honestly provides the clarity needed to find a truly compatible match.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7a17d433-e7ea-4b9e-a50c-cd28d8e3f071)
- [Video: You can be a good person, and they can be a good person, but that doesn't automatically make you a good match for each other. We help you distinguish between a good profile and a genuinely compatible partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f809c6c8-52b7-461a-8310-b2e3a1fc3364)
- [Video: Our role is not to force a relationship but to facilitate a connection based on genuine understanding. We take the time to learn your nature and values to ensure the foundation of the relationship is strong from the very beginning.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e9546385-ad66-4c83-868f-851b16a87d9d)
- ![A lasting connection is built on conversations that go deeper than favorite colors. It's about aligning on life's big questions, like career goals and future aspirations.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8de2af88-e6fc-470f-b3da-8574aaeecf04)
- ![When your partner understands your five year plan before your Netflix password, you know you're building something meaningful. We focus on matching visions, not just interests.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/74618b96-a021-467c-b327-8d91d3996945)
- ![The most successful couples we see are those who discuss shared values before honeymoon destinations. This alignment on core principles is what sustains a relationship long term.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7cc5375b-3270-470d-8b48-d2f51bd1607c)
- ![The narrative around arranged marriage is changing. It's no longer about settling. It's about making a conscious, informed choice with the support of your family.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d04c9bc2-0579-4d60-bd13-d92c32bd6bf4)
- ![Choosing a life partner isn't leaving it to luck. It's about having the important conversations about values, families, and life goals before you start the 'shaadi' chapter.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8695c696-c80f-45cc-8b17-42764af32f0c)
- ![There is a big difference between saying 'yes' out of expectation and saying 'yes' because it feels right. We empower you to make a decision that is intentional and true to you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/15d074b1-258c-4b15-a66b-ce37c43e5e46)
- ![Modern arranged marriage is not about settling for less. It's about entering a partnership with clarity, understanding, and a shared sense of purpose.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2aac2adc-41a6-4075-b2eb-326d8394e606)
- ![Before you commit to a lifelong journey, it's crucial to look beyond the surface. These are the deeper compatibility checks that truly matter for a lasting partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/85bf23bd-7f8b-4da4-9bc4-751b21e2931f)
- ![A key aspect of compatibility is emotional regulation. We encourage discussions around how you both manage stress, anger, and conflict, as this is fundamental to navigating life's challenges together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1afd5693-7782-4fd2-bd32-00e8435e9876)
- ![Financial compatibility goes far beyond income. It's about aligning on spending habits, saving patterns, and your shared financial future. These are practical conversations that build a secure foundation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0c41b3dd-7c51-47f3-b11d-4e01c5bdb1a8)
- ![Understanding each other's attachment style, whether secure, anxious, or avoidant, can provide incredible insight into how you both connect and communicate in a relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ce4ff023-5c0a-4141-943a-c532a28ac96b)
- ![A partner's awareness of mental health is crucial. Can they offer support and understanding, or do they dismiss valid feelings as "overthinking"? This is a key indicator of emotional maturity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2126f60e-188e-4c12-9d84-3fbe83c0a9ff)
- ![You might feel ready for a wedding, but are you ready for the realities of marriage? This is the question we help you explore, moving beyond the celebration to the commitment itself.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6852f77d-c108-4b3a-b631-d3e3c64a6d34)
- ![A partner adds to your life, they don't complete it. Knowing your own passions, purpose, and emotional triggers is essential before you can build a healthy life with someone else.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7b374606-663f-4a05-982d-540da1619430)
- ![Do your visions for the future align on key areas like children, careers, and family values? Love grows stronger when the direction is clear and mutually agreed upon.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e6b68a7c-a479-4593-bd6d-68ed43c44fed)
- ![Disagreements are a normal part of any relationship. The important question is, can you fight constructively? The goal isn't to win the argument, but to understand each other better.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/be3bb3dc-a46e-4303-bf40-bd85c5b9760a)
- ![It's easy to fall in love with a fantasy of who someone is. We encourage you to see the real person and ask yourself if you're ready to love who they will grow to become.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2ae5d16e-1d47-4ce1-9fa6-aa9d492052c1)
- ![If these questions feel a bit direct, that's a good thing. Marriage is not a fairy tale; it's a team sport that requires real work. When you're ready for that, we're ready for you.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ce40cf5d-e49b-4d25-bb62-13e1609bdcd6)
- [Video: Physical attraction is subjective and often the first thing people notice. However, we encourage you to look deeper. A person's personality, confidence, and kindness are what truly sustain a relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b2fe2662-e71c-4096-bc55-7e55cf91c992)
- [Video: Red flags are not always obvious. With our years of experience, we help you identify and understand subtle patterns in behavior and values that could become significant issues over time.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/42e6fe2b-43b1-4a58-99a3-b4bda5a64b1c)
- [Video: Your choice of life partner is one of the two most important decisions you'll ever make. We provide the guidance, solutions, and counseling to help you make that choice with confidence and clarity.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/ea287185-e748-4f5a-b4c7-1c7cbfeb211f)

### [The 'Real Talk' on Marriage](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/the-real-talk-on-marriage)

- [Video: People often confuse the wedding with the marriage. A wedding is a three hour show, but a marriage is for a lifetime. We help you plan for the relationship, focusing on the character and connection that will last long after the decorations come down.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/6b1b1671-c553-4889-bc22-a3033ed21c56)
- [Video: It's the small, thoughtful gestures that build a strong emotional connection. A partner remembering a small detail or a mother in law's generous act can create a more lasting impact than grand, expensive gifts.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b89c86ea-bf45-43b9-bbec-772ab88ba172)
- [Video: When a man takes initiative in small ways, like handling the bill at a family meeting, it's not about the money. It's a signal of responsibility, capability, and a mindset of partnership that women and their families value.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/075be38f-f619-4d04-a1f3-3e65001f72b6)
- [Video: In early meetings, small gestures like offering to pay the bill set the tone for the relationship. It's not about who pays, but about showing mutual respect and a willingness to build something equal together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/880355c4-a079-44b1-bb2d-dc269565e6c3)
- [Video: A father once told me he'd say yes to the family that simply offered to pay the bill. It's not about the expense, but the courtesy and initiative. This small act shows respect and leaves a lasting positive impression.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cbe2a824-5dc3-4846-b779-656943224efb)
- [Video: Divorces don't happen over "one small thing." They happen because of many small unresolved issues. We stress the importance of communication to clear up grudges before they build up and damage the relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2a4d1b5a-04ec-49ae-b4cc-32cde1182ff7)
- ![A strong marriage teaches you resilience. It's about standing together through challenges, supporting each other, and growing stronger as a team with every obstacle you overcome.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d2095505-55fa-4542-b161-b45b14da22fd)
- ![Marriage is the ultimate form of teamwork. It's two people embarking on one journey, working together to build and achieve shared dreams.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a21fe976-8429-41c7-91ee-a7ebec0d1e19)
- ![True compromise in a relationship isn't about losing yourself. It's about learning to meet your partner halfway, finding a balance that honors both of your needs and perspectives.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4fb37ce6-82f4-45ac-b69f-94e5a5be3a50)
- ![Patience is a cornerstone of a healthy marriage. It's the practice of waiting, truly listening to your partner, and seeking to understand their point of view before you react.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/72a7d859-25e9-48e5-83d5-0619b5a20e79)
- [Video: Finding a life partner is a stressful process. We discuss the importance of managing your mental and emotional health by setting clear boundaries, practicing self care, and maintaining open communication with your parents.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c78a9ed3-47bb-474a-b2d1-f333b8d4fed2)

### [The Modern Arranged Marriage](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/the-modern-arranged-marriage)

- [Video: A common myth is that love is impossible in an arranged marriage. Sach toh yeh hai, love has no fixed timeline. It grows from understanding, respect, and shared experiences, and we create the space for that bond to develop.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e5dbf696-28f3-4794-bbab-769f9a6724f2)
- ![We often have filmy expectations of love. This post contrasts the fantasy of instant connection with the reality of what a true partnership requires.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d5c46cb4-570c-43c9-8e82-69d432debc3b)
- ![The reality of arranged meetings can sometimes be awkward, with repetitive questions and endless cups of chai. We help you move past these surface level interactions to have more meaningful conversations.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0affbfe9-aad0-45ab-bca1-a80ea2a0a686)
- ![Arranged marriages are not about finding an instant spark. They are about building a fire of companionship, trust, and love that is meant to last a lifetime.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e5bc7e1d-0b78-4682-9052-5dae5e366a5f)
- [Video: Before you marry someone, try to be their friend. A marriage founded on friendship is one where trust anchors every argument and even silence feels comfortable and connecting.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/af49d13d-bfff-49c5-9980-25932941b591)
- [Video: Freedom in a marriage is not something to be 'given' or 'allowed'. It is a fundamental right. A true partnership is about supporting each other's dreams and choices, not controlling them.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/7bb98713-8a92-4638-ae4f-b056bc826f2d)
- [Video: In love marriages, you know the person well beforehand, but expectations can lead to conflict after the wedding. In arranged marriages, two people start as strangers and learn to adjust, often leading to a strong, collaborative bond.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/837bee03-a9f7-4b5e-b22e-2e3f1766b049)
- [Video: With rising divorce rates, it's natural to be cautious about marriage. Today's generation fears a relationship where they are not emotionally connected. We address these fears by focusing on building clarity and emotional courage first.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/28e58195-1868-4e81-96f6-c54fc65dd656)
- ![Are you tired of the endless, superficial swiping on dating apps? We offer a personalized, human-centric alternative to help you find your soulmate without the digital fatigue.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fbdb7526-8fa5-4b6a-99f1-0d93e1642a41)
- ![Say goodbye to endless scrolling and frustrating mismatches. Let us simplify your search for a life partner with our personalized and curated matchmaking process.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a6ef2143-2025-40e6-8f50-41360005353c)
- ![This screenshot of a mother-daughter chat reflects the modern arranged marriage process. It's not about pressure, but about finding genuine understanding and connection, with your family as your support system.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/70dfd6a7-2c7d-4144-9743-86995846ff21)

### [The Role of Family: Do Parivaaron ka Milna](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/the-role-of-family-do-parivaaron-ka-milna)

- [Video: An old saying goes, "see the mother to know the daughter." While times have changed, the influence of parents, especially mothers, remains a powerful force in shaping a child's values and, consequently, their marriage.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e07a70b9-70b6-4dc6-8237-f1bee99d1b1e)
- [Video: A client shares her insight that a parent's experience and behavior patterns are often reflected in their children. This is why we believe that meeting the family is a crucial step in understanding a potential partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f40a132c-4de6-4afa-b13b-9878b3eadfd7)
- [Video: The role of parents has shifted from making decisions to supporting them. They now observe the interactions, gauge respect and comfort, and offer their wisdom to help their children make the best choice.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4cee6325-40fe-45cc-b485-e299de70a649)
- [Video: Who should start the marriage talk, parents or children? We believe the best case scenario is when both sides take the initiative together, creating a process that is balanced, respectful, and intentional.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/60d91b58-8b74-4439-ab78-fd675692e397)
- [Video: We often see a communication gap between parents and children about marriage. We encourage parents to create a safe space for open dialogue, so the family can make this important decision together, without fear or pressure.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/18757d68-4f95-498c-8242-18410be192e7)
- [Video: We've seen a beautiful shift where children are now seeking companions for their widowed parents. This shows a growing acceptance and understanding within families that everyone, regardless of age, deserves companionship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/75fe6379-ae6c-4bd8-8c57-232d13d39dfb)
- [Video: Many young people are hesitant about the arranged marriage process. We bridge this gap by understanding their modern expectations for freedom and compatibility, while also respecting the family's values.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d0118801-3c01-4b46-b28e-722ffccec34c)

### [Our 'Wedcast' & Expert Insights](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/our-wedcast-expert-insights)

- [Video: Our debut Wedcast episode is live! We walk you through our process, which prioritizes understanding the client's culture, values, and personal preferences to ensure a truly compatible match.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8543a20b-9f5b-4194-8e38-d4a74ac568f0)
- [Video: In this Wedcast episode, we discuss how arranged marriages have evolved. It's no longer about just family decisions; it's a collaborative effort where communication between the couple, families, and matchmaker is key.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1fcdaddc-20fb-4ea6-a303-78c2658e5e6f)
- [Video: Families sometimes ask, "What did you even do?" when a match clicks on the first try. This Wedcast clip explains how our 16 years of experience allow us to provide a curated solution, not just a list of options.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8fd2edbf-ed45-453d-a552-0e562c9f30a8)
- [Video: A perfect match can sometimes look too easy, but it's the result of 16 years of expertise in understanding people. In this Wedcast clip, we discuss how we provide solutions, not just profiles.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c2cf3b49-d1c2-4446-ad6b-69edf38a8d28)
- [Video: In this podcast clip, I discuss the "right age" for marriage. Marrying later in life often comes with an endless checklist and creates a larger generation gap with your future children.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/66f737e8-c19c-45b0-a81c-e0541dba570e)
- [Video: Emotional stability is crucial for sustaining a marriage. In this Wedcast episode, we discuss how our programmed behavior patterns drive relationships and how coaching can help reprogram them for a healthier partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cee83f2c-d836-45f6-b71c-d33f27c7335a)
- [Video: In this Wedcast episode, guest Ramon Llamba discusses how pre-marriage counseling and karmic patterns influence relationships, offering a deep dive into healing and building a bond that lasts.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/67f2b6d7-76d6-4d01-bd4e-97dfc4366f20)
- [Video: In the search for a "better" rishta, many people lose the best one. This Wedcast clip explores how unrealistic expectations and a lack of self-awareness can sabotage the search for a life partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5214d641-4b63-4543-8edf-21c007caa116)
- [Video: Is Indian society finally changing its perception of divorced women? In this Wedcast episode, we discuss the nuances of divorce, remarriage, and the importance of resolving issues before making a final decision.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/289228b6-eb50-42ba-a0bf-e4ce8fab85ed)
- [Video: What if your partner is part of your karmic blueprint? Astrologer Nikita Anand joins our Wedcast to discuss how astrology and Kundli matching can be a spiritual tool to see if two energies are truly in sync.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/bf3faf2a-a8f4-4e8c-863c-5b7434fac277)
- [Video: What happens when your heart says yes but the kundli says no? This Wedcast clip delves into the cosmic side of compatibility and the role of belief in navigating astrological predictions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/11118fec-8fca-4343-8eac-b109c25cecc9)
- [Video: In this Wedcast teaser, astrologer Nikita Anand discusses how astrology serves as a guiding tool in matchmaking, helping to answer questions and provide direction, while still acknowledging the role of free will.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/468883e4-e875-4d91-a25c-487f10964c50)

### [Wisdom from Our Traditions](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/wisdom-from-our-traditions)

- ![The story of Shiv and Parvati is a timeless lesson in choosing a partner. As the sacred month of Sawan begins, we reflect on their bond, built on devotion, patience, and purpose.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b653d153-914a-4260-b8d4-16f269e3139b)
- ![Parvati didn't fall in love instantly; she chose Shiv with clarity and unwavering faith. Her love was intentional, a result of patience, prayer, and preparation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/83cd332c-5d8c-4c81-aa6d-0ddf58661b75)
- ![We believe every marriage should begin with this level of alignment. A bond that connects two people emotionally, mentally, and spiritually is the foundation for a divine partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f8759dff-cc74-4509-b492-09aad544c010)
- ![What if you were told not to marry the one you love? Savitri was, but she chose Satyavan anyway, proving that conviction can be more powerful than predictions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/175610b5-1350-4202-8e59-8ef76b5e7016)
- ![When Savitri chose Satyavan, astrologers warned her he was destined to die within a year. Everyone told her to walk away, but she saw beyond the predictions.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/aab032c3-47ad-4610-a768-532636d6d8ef)
- ![Savitri's choice was tested when Yama, the god of death, came for Satyavan. Yet, she stood her ground and chose him again, demonstrating unwavering commitment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/2a5e641f-ebfc-4d5a-9f76-ef2a64156565)
- ![Love is not just a match written in the stars; it's a conscious decision made every day. Savitri's story teaches us that choice is a powerful force.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d6686b56-8ecd-449f-bd0a-873c56d7477f)
- ![What makes a relationship last is choosing each other, even when the odds are against you. This is the ultimate lesson from the story of Savitri and Satyavan.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/dd5e2f5d-f9fd-4d12-a0d3-5b905bc6c56a)
- ![In the end, you don't marry a kundli; you marry a person. We believe in facilitating meaningful choices, where human connection and conviction are paramount.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/8b738d6b-6ea7-4225-9f11-c6f233719ae5)
- [Video: A perfect Kundli match is like a Google Map; it shows you the path but can't drive the car for you. A marriage works not because of 36 gunn, but because you work on it every day.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1e0e2f6e-1e76-4cb5-863b-0ab295dbe6ed)
- !["36 gunn milne se shadi nahi chalti, shadi chalane se shadi chalti hai!" A successful marriage requires more than aligned stars; it needs aligned values, effort, and growth.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e8557287-5171-4d60-91db-4155f1dcf47e)
- [Video: Should you match kundlis? It depends on your belief. If you believe, it will give you peace of mind. If you don't, it may create negativity. Ultimately, your actions and efforts are what make a marriage work.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/93b252b4-a65c-460a-8946-041eac8524ac)

### [Client Stories & Event Highlights](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/client-stories-event-highlights)

- [Video: "It is saving lots of time and energy." We are so grateful for these kind words from a happy parent at our event. Our goal is to make the process efficient and effective, so you can focus on making the right connection.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3cdfb6e4-e866-4656-bda0-14ade3327d9f)
- [Video: "It was a good start. I got the idea like how to talk." It's wonderful to hear that our event helped this young man feel more prepared and confident in his search. That's exactly what we aim for.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/39ac1509-5081-4f97-8252-14722c9b1fef)
- [Video: "They're trying to bring in a modern approach which is really good." We are thrilled that clients at our 'Meet Your Match' event recognized and appreciated our efforts to evolve the traditional arranged marriage process.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/889ddec3-2093-417f-b2b6-aa5ba746df16)
- [Video: "Sachin and Shalu, they go out of their way." We are deeply grateful to Mr. Dhurv Chawla for his heartfelt words. Taking care of our clients' emotions and specific needs is what sets us apart.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e6c2c6bb-ae46-4e5f-a42c-b46cf063db06)
- [Video: We asked people on the street what makes them say "yes" to a marriage. The answers, from "friendship" to "a spark" to "great companionship," show that compatibility goes far beyond a checklist.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/aeeb4ea6-1b99-4465-b613-bb1031bfc366)
- [Video: "Strong relationships are built, not found." Our founder had an insightful conversation with Dr. Niranjan Hiranandani about the importance of effort, compromise, and consistency in modern relationships.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d15807cc-0d87-481a-aed7-9271aff33e2a)

### [Our Story & Team](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan/pre-marital-coaching-counseling/our-story-team)

- [Video: From a single laptop bought on EMI to a global matchmaking service, this is our story. Watch the full video on our YouTube channel to see how we built a legacy of love, one successful match at a time.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3b0d8299-182f-47ca-b849-7e2aa8aa08ea)
- [Video: For 16 years, we have helped families worldwide find their perfect match. Our personalized process is built on deep insight, understanding family values, and respecting individual preferences to create lifelong happiness.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f609db27-6582-4d8c-9559-04480c24d6ec)
- [Video: We are proud to celebrate 16 glorious years of bringing soulmates together. Thank you to all our clients for trusting us with one of the most important journeys of your lives. Here's to many more years of love!](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/3914fd0c-111a-4538-b456-629121c0cd1a)
- ![This Teachers' Day, we celebrate marriage as life's greatest teacher. Here, our founders are seen doing what they do best: guiding families on their journey to a meaningful partnership.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9bb15f3a-befc-4f15-81cc-e5d2319fa96e)
- ![Your partner is not a project to be fixed. This carousel reminds us that love is about growing with someone, not changing them.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/200dab50-c1b0-407c-a49f-c0c66c60d848)
- ![People are not puzzles to be solved; they are stories to be read one page at a time. A lasting relationship requires presence, patience, and the choice to keep reading.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/54dd3838-130e-47af-abf1-281205713eeb)
- ![We've all been guilty of running a "performance review" on a potential match. This post is a gentle reminder to offer the same acceptance we wish to receive.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/df03a3f7-b78d-46dc-9739-a12b05e73fc5)
- [Video: A reminder: Your match is not a project. They are a person, not a pitch deck to be customized. If you find yourself thinking "they're great IF...", it's time to rethink your approach.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fe253516-2cb0-4ec9-92e8-11625cc85fc7)
- [Video: This video captures the quiet intimacy that can blossom in an arranged marriage. It's not about strangers becoming partners, but about two partners slowly and intentionally becoming soulmates.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/934c1dc9-0215-4427-8228-c01db2ab5c4d)

## Meet your expert

[Make My Lagan](https://mytribe.in/makemylagan)

### My story

2010 se hi hum yeh kaam kar rahe hain. Log swipe karte-karte thak gaye hain, sabko asli connection chahiye, na ki sirf ek aur profile. Humara process algorithm pe nahi, niyat aur samajh pe chalta hai. Shaadi do parivaaron ki hoti hai, isliye hum parents ko bhi milwate hain, sirf bachchon ko nahi. Rishte ki neev strong ho, yeh zaroori hai. Humari matchmaking mein spiritual faith bhi hai – bas yahi hai humari journey. Shukrana.

### My work

- **Elite Matchmaking Services**: Hum curated introductions for families karte hain, sab kuch personal touch ke sath, sirf serious logon ke liye.
- **Tradition Meets Modern**: Traditional Indian matchmaking ko modern soch ke saath milate hain - yahan fun dating nahi, yahan intentional matchmaking hai.
- **Family Courtship Advice**: Sirf couple nahi, parents ke liye bhi courtship period. Hum ghar tak aake values aur lifestyle samajhte hain.
- **Beyond Bio-data**: Profile nahi, kahaniyan samajhte hain. Emotional intelligence compatibility aur values pe focus karte hain.
- **Quality over Quantity**: 100 options nahi, bas kuch carefully selected matches. Hum clarity aur care se right match dhoondte hain.

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