--- title: "Conscious Parenting Philosophy | Dr. Abhishek Pasari Bengaluru" description: "Discover my approach to conscious parenting and emotional wellbeing. I blend modern psychology and ancient wisdom to help you build a stronger bond with your child." canonical: https://mytribe.in/drabhishekpasari/parenting-coaching/my-philosophy-the-why-behind-my-work last_updated: 2025-08-31 --- # The Philosophy Behind Conscious Parenting Tribe Verified · Parenting Coach based in Whitefield, Bengaluru By [Abhishek Pasari](https://mytribe.in/drabhishekpasari) · Available online; In-person at Whitefield, Bengaluru · ₹3,000 per session (estimate) Part of [Parenting Coaching](https://mytribe.in/drabhishekpasari/parenting-coaching). [View full gallery](https://mytribe.in/drabhishekpasari/parenting-coaching/gallery) I don't just teach parenting; I live it. Here is the foundation of my practice, where modern psychology meets the wisdom of letting children lead the way. ## Photos and videos - [Video: I often hear parents say that children pick up bad habits quickly. In this video, I explain why this happens by comparing negative behaviors to a virus and positive ones to healthy food. It's a matter of making conscious, right choices for your child, however hard it may be.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/77b8a319-863e-45ae-9c71-821d112cf45c) - [Video: Becoming a father was a journey of unlearning and learning for me. I used to think having a baby was just a natural next step, but I soon realized it's a lifetime responsibility that required me to step up. This video is for all fathers, sharing my path to becoming an active and involved parent.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/c1709af5-8ba7-4f93-922e-35a6c478c647) - [Video: The biggest challenge in parenting is the denial that we need help. We think we can figure it all out on our own, but our children are growing every moment. It's okay to seek advice and learn the art of parenting rather than making irreparable mistakes.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/52617938-11a7-496f-9f93-46eeabc14d6c) - [Video: "My children don't respect me" is a common complaint. I believe respect is earned, not demanded. Children see their parents as gods, but lose trust when we manipulate, lie, or disrespect them. This video explores how treating your child as a human being with feelings is the key to gaining their respect.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a66b900a-166e-4941-819d-89783a89dfee) - ![This is one of my core beliefs, captured here on Teacher's Day. The traditional view is that we teach our children, but I see it the other way around. Children are here to teach us, and we are here to learn from them, making every parent a lifelong student.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/f90048e3-0895-44a6-9e04-4c1fe8ad82c7) - [Video: Your parenting journey begins the moment you conceive. Your child is the building block of your family, and pregnancy is the time to lay a strong foundation. As your baby grows, they are also checking on your growth as a parent.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/db163373-0712-49e0-be4f-a2b1a6bb7c80) - [Video: Parenting is not just about raising a child; it's about creating a deep, lasting bond. The nine months of pregnancy are a crucial preparation period to adjust your lifestyle and build a strong family foundation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1bb3446c-adde-4ec9-ab81-6f913120d3f0) - [Video: When you have a child, your family configuration changes from a couple to a family. This social shift requires adaptation, education, and wisdom. This video explains how to embrace these changes and create a sacred bond of love and care.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/214a6e4d-5ede-47ba-8312-863732394ba5) ## About My Philosophy: The 'Why' Behind My Work My core belief is that we are here to learn from our children, not just teach them. I often see parents struggle because they try to manage their kids rather than build a bond. Whether it is shifting from traditional schooling to unschooling or simply handling daily tantrums, the work starts with us. We have to be willing to unlearn our own ego before we can help our children thrive. Parenting isn't a job you clock into; it is a living, breathing connection. When I work with families in Bengaluru and beyond, I don't give generic advice. We look at the root cause of behavior—screen addiction, academic refusal, or social anxiety—through the lens of conscious parenting. ### The 'Khichdi' Approach: Science and Wisdom I blend modern NLP techniques with ancient wisdom. I don't believe in shouting or outdated discipline tactics. Instead, we use psychological framing to identify triggers. My goal is to equip you with immediate de-escalation tactics that work at home, not just in theory. ### Why Unschooling? My decision to pull my kids from school wasn't a whim; it was a move toward true emotional wellbeing. I guide parents through the transition, whether you are ready for full unschooling or just want to bring more intentional learning into your home. ### 'Baat Karne Se Baat Banti Hai' Real change happens when parents and kids actually talk. If you find yourself constantly lecturing or feeling disconnected, it is time to pivot. My consultations are non-judgmental, confidential spaces to get clear, actionable advice on how to communicate with your child, regardless of whether they are a toddler or entering their teenage years. If you are ready to stop guessing and start building a stronger, more resilient bond, let's talk. ## About Abhishek Pasari I am Dr. Abhishek Pasari. My three kids are my greatest teachers, and I have spent years unlearning how I was raised to better show up for them. If you are feeling overwhelmed, I am here to help you navigate this journey. 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