--- title: "Wisdom on Love and Spiritual Partnership from Gurudev" description: "Discover timeless wisdom on love, spiritual partnership, and conscious relationships from Gurudev. Find clarity for your soulmate journey with our community." canonical: https://mytribe.in/artofliving_matrimony/relationship-workshops/wisdom-from-gurudev-on-love-life-partnership last_updated: 2025-09-06 --- # Wisdom on Love, Life, and Spiritual Partnership Tribe Verified · Conscious matches across India and beyond. By [Art Of Living Matrimony](https://mytribe.in/artofliving_matrimony) · Online via Zoom and at Ashram on Kanakapura Road · ₹950 Per Person (estimate) Part of [Relationship Workshops](https://mytribe.in/artofliving_matrimony/relationship-workshops). [View full gallery](https://mytribe.in/artofliving_matrimony/relationship-workshops/gallery) Are you looking for a partner who shares your path of seva and sadhana? Gurudev’s insights on relationships help you look inward before looking outward. Explore these reflections to find clarity, connection, and grace in your journey toward a conscious partnership. ## Photos and videos - [Video: Why do people fall out of love? Gurudev explains the difference between 'falling' in love and 'rising' in love. When we shift our focus from begging for attention to contributing to our partner's life, the relationship transforms.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0188664b-5106-4c9d-86db-9b32b019fd71) - [Video: Do soulmates exist? How do you recognize them? In this session, Gurudev answers this deeply felt question, guiding us to look beyond checklists and listen to our hearts, distinguishing between true intuition and emotional attachment.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fcd24c34-b49b-4dbf-9b3a-761b77874ef1) - [Video: In this thoughtful discussion, Gurudev addresses difficult questions about cheating and divorce. He advises giving your 100 percent to a relationship and having patience, especially when children are involved, but also acknowledges that moving on is better than a lifetime of misery.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/9d90c6ce-3126-4208-b521-5024ff6e0b54) - [Video: "My husband listens to everyone but me." This is a common feeling, and in this clip, Gurudev offers a profound shift in perspective. He guides us on how to find our own self-respect and spread joy, rather than getting stuck in complaint.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/49e959d8-4b6a-4ec3-a554-6e352f8d7d23) - [Video: "Is marriage necessary?" For anyone feeling afraid of commitment, Gurudev offers this lighthearted yet profound advice. He encourages us to not be afraid, to give our 100 percent, and to understand that partnership in today's world is about choice and mutual support.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/811bff0b-bf73-4e73-91f4-62ea0796a364) - ![Gurudev gently reminds us not to get stuck waiting for a "perfect" person. The real journey is about finding a good person and choosing to build a life together with kindness and understanding.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5182849f-5d05-4961-8c1d-7c49291af232) - ![Our 'Relationship Secrets' workshop is a two-day online journey to find new insights into partnership. This graphic shares a core teaching from Gurudev: true love is about seeing the perfection in an imperfect person.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/cddc31a0-5296-4b37-a95b-4c80bc9f7def) - ![A core teaching for any partnership: love cannot be demanded. This quote from Gurudev reminds us that trust is the foundation, and demanding proof of love or loyalty only pushes it away.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/11f15670-b7e1-49ef-af09-133f92febafe) - ![This image of two hands holding gently represents the trust Gurudev speaks of. When you take it for granted that the other person loves you, without asking for proof, the connection deepens.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/d0edce25-49c4-4bde-862e-0a55e90d16bf) - ![A relationship is a delicate dance of giving and receiving. Gurudev shares the skill of creating space for your partner to contribute, allowing love to flow without demands.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/94b5b99e-7a34-44d3-9cae-29539d49b979) - ![Many wonder if marriage is a block to spiritual growth. Here, Gurudev clarifies that a partnership built on cooperation, compassion, and care is a beautiful path to walk together, supporting each other's journey.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/b9c39724-9705-4111-887c-8f6679606b27) - [Video: How can you know if someone truly loves you? Gurudev's answer is simple and direct: "Love is of the heart. Don't judge it by your head." This short clip reminds us to trust our feelings and intuition.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/72c6000e-3323-4e09-bc1f-f01afdecef72) - ![On Valentine's Day and every day, we remember this wisdom. Love combined with wisdom leads to eternal bliss, while selfish love will eventually bring misery. This is the foundation of a conscious relationship.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/523c4d2c-9182-43a8-af2b-971983dbee1a) - ![A strong relationship is built by two strong individuals. Gurudev reminds us that meditation gives us the inner strength to be a giver in any relationship, offering support and stability from a place of fullness.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/226a8ac0-ee6e-4cb2-83cf-bc20f91a122f) - [Video: Is it possible to hide love? In this beautiful talk, Gurudev explains that while you can hide thoughts, love is the finest feeling and is almost impossible to hide. The more you try, the more it expresses itself.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/0c5d4ae0-51f4-419b-aa6d-8e5d67e6a7a4) - ![This post expands on Gurudev's wisdom: if you feel love has reduced, ask your partner, 'Why do you love me so much?' This magnanimity can rekindle the connection, as demand destroys love.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/71e1600f-d3ef-4369-a554-f1de542ebcab) - ![What makes a 'quality relationship'? Gurudev explains that when a relationship comes from a space of giving (seva) rather than need, it has a strong and healthy foundation.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/e93ef5c4-4ef7-49d7-8a28-aa62cac85bef) - ![True love is not about merging into one and losing yourself. It is, as Gurudev says, when two souls become one without losing their unique individuality, creating a partnership of two whole people.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/1a298c00-5b22-4f28-8e04-1345835e07eb) - [Video: This video captures the immense gratitude and respect we all feel for Gurudev. His presence on the path, teaching the world the art of living, is the guiding light for everything we do, including helping people find partners in service and knowledge.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5b1a8ee1-837c-4930-9931-54b392b8cb6d) - ![This graphic introduces a common question: why does love seem to fade after marriage? It sets the stage for Gurudev's wisdom on shifting from a mindset of taking to one of giving.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/233874ca-5339-42f4-bfb6-e89f6e9c5f85) - ![Here are the answers to why love can fade. Gurudev explains that love grounded in giving endures, especially when both partners focus on making each other happy and share a common goal.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/afef0351-1cfd-4e49-999a-b4f54ca06239) - ![We invite our community to reflect with this post. Sharing the lessons we've learned from Gurudev's teachings on love helps us all grow and deepens our collective understanding.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/a44afead-8a58-401f-8690-ca28af7564f4) - [Video: Can a romantic relationship help or hinder spiritual progress? Gurudev clarifies that if both partners are focused on a bigger goal, like service and spiritual growth, the relationship becomes a powerful support system.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/92702e68-537e-4d2a-b3fa-41b35c9fe525) - ![Marriage is a beautiful opportunity to expand our sense of self. Gurudev describes it as an institution where we learn to come out of our small self and start caring for someone else, and eventually, for everyone.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/88941b07-dae7-4a94-80ff-025426771e8c) - [Video: What makes someone truly attractive? Gurudev looks beyond physical appearance and gym routines. This clip reminds us that true attractiveness comes from a deeper place within.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/67e3b976-9986-4168-bd60-e8c0b1bc585b) - ![In response to the desire for a partner, Gurudev advises focusing on one desire at a time. He gently asks if we are being too picky, reminding us to focus on finding a good person and growing together.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/5e285aaa-f4a7-4ad0-b88c-fad643562ca2) - [Video: "Am I single by free will or destiny?" Gurudev provides a simple, witty, and insightful answer to this common question, encouraging the questioner to take a step and see what happens.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/41ed1bd7-0e44-4250-b814-bb26792c259e) - [Video: How do you deal with an emotionally unavailable partner? Gurudev offers insight into the different ways men and women express emotions. He advises us not to conclude that emotions are absent just because they are not expressed in the way we expect.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/28ebdf94-45e9-4d81-bcfd-8a0003582276) - ![In marriage, it's not just about finding the right person, but being the right partner.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/fa27cb6b-8682-4850-95aa-bfff74318f90) - [Video: What is better for spiritual growth, being married or single? Gurudev answers beautifully that the most important thing is to be happy. This animated graphic shares his wisdom that happiness is possible in any state, and clarity of mind is what's truly desirable.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/03efe39e-8042-4456-b028-6e8793709521) - [Video: Gurudev reminds us that the divine, unconditional love is born inside each of us. This clip is a call to celebrate that inner joy and innocence, which is the true basis of all loving relationships.](https://assets.mytribe.in/insecure/raw:1/plain/s3://mytribe-assets-production/4ee05d22-8e0e-4e5c-80d0-5726b14978fa) ## About Wisdom from Gurudev: On Love, Life & Partnership Finding a partner in a busy world can feel isolating, especially when your life revolves around seva and sadhana. These insights aren't about changing who you are; they’re about understanding the spiritual foundation of your connections. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of dating or questioning if marriage is right for you, these perspectives offer a path back to your own intuition, helping you distinguish between emotional attachment and the kind of companionship that fosters true growth. ### Finding Clarity in Partnership In the journey of finding a life partner, we often get caught up in external checklists—looking for the 'perfect' person who matches every requirement. Gurudev reminds us that true compatibility is felt in the heart, not calculated in the head. This cluster explores the concept of 'rising in love'—a shift from seeking validation or attention to contributing meaningfully to another's life. ### Conscious Relationships A relationship is not a hindrance to spiritual growth; it is a shared path. When two people come together with a sense of service and purpose, their union becomes a source of strength. We often address common, practical hurdles in our 'Relationship Secrets' workshops, where we mix ancient sutras with modern realities. From navigating conflict to understanding why we feel the need for 'proof' of loyalty, these discussions provide the tools to build a bond rooted in trust rather than demand. ### Your Path Forward We believe that when you focus on your own sadhana and remain centered, the right connections follow. If you are seeking a partner who values seva, silence, and spiritual growth, you are in the right place. Our community meets in cities like Bangalore, Delhi, and Mumbai provide a serene environment to meet like-minded seekers, while our workshops offer deeper wisdom on sustaining these bonds. Whether you are starting your second innings or seeking your first conscious union, let these teachings guide you toward a partner with whom you can walk, grow, and serve. ## About Art Of Living Matrimony We are a community of seekers guided by the vision of Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. For us, marriage is more than just matching profiles; it is about hearts walking the same spiritual path together. We help you find a partner for your life’s journey of seva, sadhana, and satsang. 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